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ACPN Demands Urgent Overhaul of Pharmacy Practice, Raises Alarm Over Brain Drain

ACPN Demands Urgent Overhaul of Pharmacy Practice, Raises Alarm Over Brain Drain

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



The Association of Community Pharmacists of Nigeria (ACPN) has made a passionate appeal for a sweeping transformation of the pharmacy profession, warning that the mass migration of skilled personnel, weak regulatory enforcement, medicine insecurity, and the worsening national drug abuse crisis pose severe threats to public health and national security.


The association sounded the alarm during its 45th Annual National Scientific Conference, tagged “UNITY 2026,” held at the Bola Ahmed Tinubu International Conference Centre in Abuja. The high-profile event brought together senior government officials, regulators, legislators, and pharmaceutical industry leaders to chart a course for better healthcare governance and workforce retention.


Delivering his opening address, ACPN National Chairman, Pharm. Ezeh Ambrose Igwekamma, laid bare the stark realities facing the healthcare sector, pointing specifically to the alarming exodus of professionals. He revealed that approximately 9,000 pharmacists emigrated from Nigeria in the four-and-a-half years leading up to December 2025, driven by poor remuneration frameworks, porous supply chains, and substandard working conditions.


The trend has shown no signs of abating. Igwekamma disclosed that over 850 additional pharmacists obtained letters of good standing from the Pharmacists Council of Nigeria (PCN) in the first half of 2026 alone, heading toward destinations such as the United Kingdom, Canada, the United States, and Australia.


"The fortunes of the profession continue to plummet rather dangerously in recent years," Igwekamma stated, warning that the continuous depletion of intellectual capital threatens patient safety and the viability of Nigeria's pharmaceutical landscape.


The conference drew heavyweights from across the political and regulatory spheres, including the Speaker of the House of Representatives, Rt. Hon. Tajudeen Abbas; Secretary to the Government of the Federation, Senator George Akume; and the President of the Pharmaceutical Society of Nigeria (PSN), Pharm. Ayuba Tanko Ibrahim.


Representing the Federal Government, Senator Akume commended the ACPN for its steadfast commitment to safeguarding public health and urged practitioners to deepen collaborative efforts with state governments to stamp out counterfeit medications.


Meanwhile, PSN President Pharm. Ayuba Tanko Ibrahim emphasized that community pharmacists remain the most accessible healthcare providers for millions of everyday citizens, arguing that their frontline positioning makes them indispensable to achieving Universal Health Coverage (UHC).


To reverse the downward trajectory of the sector, the ACPN proposed a robust legislative and administrative reform agenda. The association is pushing for crucial structural changes, including: 

Tougher Penalties for Counterfeiting: Amendments to the Fake Drug Act to mandate harsher consequences, such as 20-year prison terms for first-time offenders and life imprisonment with total asset forfeiture for repeat perpetrators.

Institutionalised Supply Chains: The establishment of a federal Drug Management Agency to properly manage the Drug Revolving Fund system.

Capacity Building Locally: The creation of a National Postgraduate College of Pharmacy to curtail capital flight caused by foreign professional training.


Addressing the alarming United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC) statistics which indicate that over 21.2 million Nigerians grapple with substance abuse—the association called for tighter border controls, strict prescription monitoring, and the establishment of modern rehabilitation facilities nationwide.

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



The Association of Community Pharmacists of Nigeria (ACPN) has made a passionate appeal for a sweeping transformation of the pharmacy profession, warning that the mass migration of skilled personnel, weak regulatory enforcement, medicine insecurity, and the worsening national drug abuse crisis pose severe threats to public health and national security.


The association sounded the alarm during its 45th Annual National Scientific Conference, tagged “UNITY 2026,” held at the Bola Ahmed Tinubu International Conference Centre in Abuja. The high-profile event brought together senior government officials, regulators, legislators, and pharmaceutical industry leaders to chart a course for better healthcare governance and workforce retention.


Delivering his opening address, ACPN National Chairman, Pharm. Ezeh Ambrose Igwekamma, laid bare the stark realities facing the healthcare sector, pointing specifically to the alarming exodus of professionals. He revealed that approximately 9,000 pharmacists emigrated from Nigeria in the four-and-a-half years leading up to December 2025, driven by poor remuneration frameworks, porous supply chains, and substandard working conditions.


The trend has shown no signs of abating. Igwekamma disclosed that over 850 additional pharmacists obtained letters of good standing from the Pharmacists Council of Nigeria (PCN) in the first half of 2026 alone, heading toward destinations such as the United Kingdom, Canada, the United States, and Australia.


"The fortunes of the profession continue to plummet rather dangerously in recent years," Igwekamma stated, warning that the continuous depletion of intellectual capital threatens patient safety and the viability of Nigeria's pharmaceutical landscape.


The conference drew heavyweights from across the political and regulatory spheres, including the Speaker of the House of Representatives, Rt. Hon. Tajudeen Abbas; Secretary to the Government of the Federation, Senator George Akume; and the President of the Pharmaceutical Society of Nigeria (PSN), Pharm. Ayuba Tanko Ibrahim.


Representing the Federal Government, Senator Akume commended the ACPN for its steadfast commitment to safeguarding public health and urged practitioners to deepen collaborative efforts with state governments to stamp out counterfeit medications.


Meanwhile, PSN President Pharm. Ayuba Tanko Ibrahim emphasized that community pharmacists remain the most accessible healthcare providers for millions of everyday citizens, arguing that their frontline positioning makes them indispensable to achieving Universal Health Coverage (UHC).


To reverse the downward trajectory of the sector, the ACPN proposed a robust legislative and administrative reform agenda. The association is pushing for crucial structural changes, including: 

Tougher Penalties for Counterfeiting: Amendments to the Fake Drug Act to mandate harsher consequences, such as 20-year prison terms for first-time offenders and life imprisonment with total asset forfeiture for repeat perpetrators.

Institutionalised Supply Chains: The establishment of a federal Drug Management Agency to properly manage the Drug Revolving Fund system.

Capacity Building Locally: The creation of a National Postgraduate College of Pharmacy to curtail capital flight caused by foreign professional training.


Addressing the alarming United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC) statistics which indicate that over 21.2 million Nigerians grapple with substance abuse—the association called for tighter border controls, strict prescription monitoring, and the establishment of modern rehabilitation facilities nationwide.

"We Only Have Two and a Half PSP Trucks": Badagry Chairman Hunpe

"We Only Have Two and a Half PSP Trucks": Badagry Chairman Hunpe

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



BADAGRY, LAGOS – The Executive Chairman of Badagry Local Government, Hon. Babatunde Hunpe, has made an appeal to the Lagos State Government for an increase in waste disposal trucks, revealing that the local government currently relies on two-and-a-half of Private Sector Participant (PSP) waste trucks.


Hon. Hunpe disclosed this on Saturday, July 25, 2026, during the monthly environmental sanitation exercise while actively leading cleanup operations in the Ajara community. The exercise attracted state delegations and stakeholders, underscoring the government's push for a cleaner, flood-resilient Lagos.


Addressing state officials and community members, Hon. Hunpe explained the scope of waste collection challenges in the area, highlighting the vast jurisdiction stretching from Morogbo down to the Seme border.


"We have our own tricycle which is taking waste from some specific places, not taking the jobs of the PSP operators; we have our own areas we cover," Hon. Hunpe stated.


"But my observation is that we don't have enough PSP operators. Even the two or two-and-a-half that we have, their operation is not at an optimal position. We want the Ministry to assign more of the PSP to Badagry. Having said that, we are going to continue what we have been doing, and if you assess us, it should be within our core jurisdiction from Torikoh junction to Gbaji Bridge."


Responding to the chairman's observations, the Special Adviser to the Governor on Environment, Engr. Olakunle Rotimi-Akodu, noted that issues regarding operational shortages should be met with immediate administrative synergy, emphasizing that the waste management ecosystem relies heavily on adequate collection networks.


"This complaint of shortages of PSP operators should have come to us before now. We don't compromise on this kind of complaints as the system depends on the adequacy of PSP," Engr. Rotimi-Akodu noted. "We have listened to this, and we will work on it. If you noticed, the chairman didn't just say shortage of PSP, he said two-and-a-half, so that means a lot, and the system will work on it."


Praising the broad participation at the cleanup, Rotimi-Akodu added, "This shows that Badagry Local Government is ready... You see the citizens, you see the students too, as the ministry is preaching cultural shifts. Bringing in the student body is to catch them young. Bad behaviour is prevalent in our society regarding waste management, and that is why we are seeing this poorly managed waste. Let it not be because a camera is here that's why we are seeing this; it should continue after now."


Also speaking during the exercise, the Managing Director of the Lagos State Waste Management Authority (LAWMA), Dr. Muyiwa Gbadegesin, addressed the structural measures being put in place by the state. He clarified that local governments act as vital partners rather than competitors in refuse evacuation.


"The local governments are partners, and they are helping the state government in waste management. The local government is purchasing compactor trucks, and the state government is purchasing additional compactor trucks that will help us greatly on waste collection," Gbadegesin explained.


He further revealed that the Lagos State Government has begun building advanced waste disposal and material recovery facilities not dumpsites designed to safely treat refuse and extract valuable components for resource generation, with Badagry earmarked to host a major center.


Princess Damilola Sonayon James, the incoming APC Lagos Deputy Governor, who joined the cleanup, She urged Lagos residents to take waste management seriously, stressing that proper disposal habits remain a critical line of defense against seasonal flooding during the ongoing rains.

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



BADAGRY, LAGOS – The Executive Chairman of Badagry Local Government, Hon. Babatunde Hunpe, has made an appeal to the Lagos State Government for an increase in waste disposal trucks, revealing that the local government currently relies on two-and-a-half of Private Sector Participant (PSP) waste trucks.


Hon. Hunpe disclosed this on Saturday, July 25, 2026, during the monthly environmental sanitation exercise while actively leading cleanup operations in the Ajara community. The exercise attracted state delegations and stakeholders, underscoring the government's push for a cleaner, flood-resilient Lagos.


Addressing state officials and community members, Hon. Hunpe explained the scope of waste collection challenges in the area, highlighting the vast jurisdiction stretching from Morogbo down to the Seme border.


"We have our own tricycle which is taking waste from some specific places, not taking the jobs of the PSP operators; we have our own areas we cover," Hon. Hunpe stated.


"But my observation is that we don't have enough PSP operators. Even the two or two-and-a-half that we have, their operation is not at an optimal position. We want the Ministry to assign more of the PSP to Badagry. Having said that, we are going to continue what we have been doing, and if you assess us, it should be within our core jurisdiction from Torikoh junction to Gbaji Bridge."


Responding to the chairman's observations, the Special Adviser to the Governor on Environment, Engr. Olakunle Rotimi-Akodu, noted that issues regarding operational shortages should be met with immediate administrative synergy, emphasizing that the waste management ecosystem relies heavily on adequate collection networks.


"This complaint of shortages of PSP operators should have come to us before now. We don't compromise on this kind of complaints as the system depends on the adequacy of PSP," Engr. Rotimi-Akodu noted. "We have listened to this, and we will work on it. If you noticed, the chairman didn't just say shortage of PSP, he said two-and-a-half, so that means a lot, and the system will work on it."


Praising the broad participation at the cleanup, Rotimi-Akodu added, "This shows that Badagry Local Government is ready... You see the citizens, you see the students too, as the ministry is preaching cultural shifts. Bringing in the student body is to catch them young. Bad behaviour is prevalent in our society regarding waste management, and that is why we are seeing this poorly managed waste. Let it not be because a camera is here that's why we are seeing this; it should continue after now."


Also speaking during the exercise, the Managing Director of the Lagos State Waste Management Authority (LAWMA), Dr. Muyiwa Gbadegesin, addressed the structural measures being put in place by the state. He clarified that local governments act as vital partners rather than competitors in refuse evacuation.


"The local governments are partners, and they are helping the state government in waste management. The local government is purchasing compactor trucks, and the state government is purchasing additional compactor trucks that will help us greatly on waste collection," Gbadegesin explained.


He further revealed that the Lagos State Government has begun building advanced waste disposal and material recovery facilities not dumpsites designed to safely treat refuse and extract valuable components for resource generation, with Badagry earmarked to host a major center.


Princess Damilola Sonayon James, the incoming APC Lagos Deputy Governor, who joined the cleanup, She urged Lagos residents to take waste management seriously, stressing that proper disposal habits remain a critical line of defense against seasonal flooding during the ongoing rains.

The Facts Dr. Tosin Ajayi Left Behind Cannot be Ignored 

The Facts Dr. Tosin Ajayi Left Behind Cannot be Ignored 

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



This case should not begin with Dr. Tosin Ajayi's death. It should begin with how he chose to live his life. The dead cannot speak. But their lives speak for them.


Why would a respected medical practitioner, a man of sound mind and impeccable judgment, leave Adenike Yemisi Ajayi over 35 years ago and never return?


Dr. Tosin Ajayi left Adenike Ajayi 10 years before he met Helen Prest Ajayi, whom he later married. He then spent the next 25 years building a life and family with Helen in full view of relatives, friends, professional associates and society.

If Adenike Ajayi truly believed she remained Dr. Tosin Ajayi's lawful wife, why did she remain silent for more than three decades?

Why did she never challenge him?

Why did she never petition for divorce?

Why did she never seek maintenance?

Why did she never ask any court to declare that she was still his wife?

Most importantly, why did she never challenge either Helen Prest Ajayi or Dr. Tosin Ajayi during his lifetime?

Another question people are asking is this: if Dr. Tosin Ajayi truly believed he remained legally married to Adenike Yemisi Ajayi, why did he never seek a divorce before openly building a new life with Helen Prest Ajayi?

For the next 35 years, Dr. Tosin Ajayi lived without any apparent concern that he needed to dissolve an existing marriage. For 25 years, he openly introduced Helen Prest Ajayi as his wife, built a family with her, and lived that life publicly. His actions suggest that he did not believe there was a marriage requiring dissolution.

The court also heard evidence from Adenike Ajayi herself that she was unable to authenticate the alleged marriage in the manner required by law because the marriage certificate could not be found in the official registry.

The court further had before it an earlier consent judgment relating to participation in Dr. Tosin Ajayi's funeral. In those proceedings, Adenike Ajayi entered into a consent judgment recognising both herself and Helen Prest Ajayi as co-wives. That judgment was tendered and admitted into evidence by Adenike Ajayi herself. It is difficult to understand why the trial court failed to attach due weight to that earlier judicial record.

Respectfully, these are matters that deserved far greater consideration.

Taken together, these are not minor issues. They are significant pieces of evidence which, it is respectfully maintained, were not given the weight they deserved.

They also raise a simple question deserving careful consideration: if there was no marriage that could be legally established, what exactly was there to divorce?

Moreover, the evidence before the court showed that in 2010, Adenike Yemisi Ajayi attended her own daughter's wedding in London, a wedding organised by Helen Prest Ajayi, the widow of Dr. Tosin Ajayi. The seating arrangements, prepared by Adenike Ajayi's own daughter, Mayowa Okeowo (née Ajayi), placed Dr. Tosin Ajayi and Helen Prest Ajayi together as husband and wife, while Adenike Ajayi was seated at another table.

There was no protest.

There was no objection.

There was no legal action.

For more than 35 years, there was no public, private or business relationship between Adenike Yemisi Ajayi and Dr. Tosin Ajayi. There was no evidence of a continuing marriage. There was no attempt to prevent him from openly living his life with another woman for a quarter of a century.

That silence speaks volumes.

The unfortunate reality is that the wealth Adenike Ajayi could not access during Dr. Tosin Ajayi's lifetime is the wealth she now seeks to access after his death. It appears she believes that because Dr. Tosin Ajayi is no longer alive, he cannot answer for himself.

But if the dead cannot speak, their lives can.

For the last 35 years of his life, Dr. Tosin Ajayi's actions consistently pointed in one direction. He left Adenike Ajayi and never returned. He had no relationship with her, publicly or privately. He did not share a home with her, build a life with her, or present her to the world as his wife. Instead, he chose to spend the next 25 years building a home and family with Helen Prest Ajayi.

His conduct over three and a half decades strongly suggests that he wanted nothing further to do with Adenike Ajayi. Those were not the actions of a man who intended to preserve a marital relationship. They were the actions of a man who had made a deliberate and enduring choice about how—and with whom—he wished to live his life.

That is why many find this outcome difficult to understand. The judgment now has the effect of redirecting the fruits of Dr. Tosin Ajayi's lifetime's work to someone with whom, by his own consistent conduct over 35 years, he demonstrated no intention of resuming any relationship.

A further question naturally arises. If there were no substantial estate to inherit, would Adenike Ajayi still be asserting that she was Dr. Tosin Ajayi's only wife?

This case is about far more than money. It concerns the reputation and legacy of Dr. Tosin Ajayi, a man who can no longer defend himself.

Dr. Tosin Ajayi can no longer come before any court to explain why he left Adenike Ajayi 35 years ago and never returned, why he spent the next 25 years with Helen Prest Ajayi, why he openly presented her as his wife, or why he lived his life exactly as he did.

But he did leave something behind.

He left the evidence of the life he lived.

The evidence of how he lived the final 35 years of his life cannot simply be brushed aside. His conduct, his relationships, and the life he openly lived tell a story that no witness can rewrite.

That is why it is respectfully maintained that the learned trial judge reached a conclusion that was against the weight of the evidence.

In the end, Dr. Tosin Ajayi has spoken—not with words, but through the choices he made during his lifetime. Those choices deserve to be given the weight they warrant.

The question the public is entitled to ask is this: should a court disregard the clear choices a person made throughout the final 35 years of his life and redirect the fruits of his lifetime's work in a manner inconsistent with those choices, particularly when those choices were open, consistent and never challenged while he was alive?


IF THERE WAS NO ESTATE, WOULD THERE STILL BE A FIGHT?

For more than 35 years, Dr. Tosin Ajayi lived a life that everyone could see.

He left Adenike Ajayi over 35 years ago.

He never returned.

He spent 25 years openly building a home and family with Helen Prest Ajayi.

There was no challenge during his lifetime.

Only after his death did the battle over his estate begin.

The question many people are now asking is simple:

If there were no substantial estate to inherit, would anyone still be claiming to be Dr. Tosin Ajayi's only wife?

This case is about more than money.

It is about whether the choices a person makes throughout his lifetime should still matter after he is gone.


THE EVIDENCE SPOKE. WAS IT GIVEN THE WEIGHT IT DESERVED?

This case is not simply about an estate. It is about the weight that should be given to undisputed facts.

Adenike Ajayi admitted in court that she could not authenticate the alleged marriage because the marriage certificate could not be found in the official registry.

She also accepted an earlier consent judgment recognising both herself and Helen Prest Ajayi as co-wives.

Dr. Tosin Ajayi then spent the final 35 years of his life living openly apart from Adenike Ajayi and building a family with Helen Prest Ajayi.

These facts were before the court.

It is respectfully maintained that they deserved greater weight.

The dead cannot speak.

But the lives they lived and the evidence they leave behind should never be ignored.


DR. TOSIN AJAYI LEFT ADENIKE AJAYI 35 YEARS AGO. WHY SHOULD HIS CHOICES COUNT FOR NOTHING NOW?

The dead cannot speak. But their lives speak for them.

Dr. Tosin Ajayi left Adenike Ajayi over 35 years before his death. Ten years later, he met his widow, Helen Prest Ajayi, built a new family with her, and spent the next 25 years openly living as her husband.

If Adenike Ajayi believed she remained his lawful wife, why did she never challenge him while he was alive?

Why no court action?

Why no application for maintenance?

Why no protest?

Why 35 years of silence?

The evidence before the court also showed that Adenike Ajayi admitted she could not authenticate the alleged marriage as prescribed by law because the marriage certificate could not be found in the official registry. The court also had before it an earlier consent judgment recognising both women as co-wives.

These are not minor issues.

Dr. Tosin Ajayi can no longer speak for himself. But the life he lived speaks loudly.

The question the public is entitled to ask is this: should the clear choices a person made throughout the final 35 years of his life be ignored after his death?

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



This case should not begin with Dr. Tosin Ajayi's death. It should begin with how he chose to live his life. The dead cannot speak. But their lives speak for them.


Why would a respected medical practitioner, a man of sound mind and impeccable judgment, leave Adenike Yemisi Ajayi over 35 years ago and never return?


Dr. Tosin Ajayi left Adenike Ajayi 10 years before he met Helen Prest Ajayi, whom he later married. He then spent the next 25 years building a life and family with Helen in full view of relatives, friends, professional associates and society.

If Adenike Ajayi truly believed she remained Dr. Tosin Ajayi's lawful wife, why did she remain silent for more than three decades?

Why did she never challenge him?

Why did she never petition for divorce?

Why did she never seek maintenance?

Why did she never ask any court to declare that she was still his wife?

Most importantly, why did she never challenge either Helen Prest Ajayi or Dr. Tosin Ajayi during his lifetime?

Another question people are asking is this: if Dr. Tosin Ajayi truly believed he remained legally married to Adenike Yemisi Ajayi, why did he never seek a divorce before openly building a new life with Helen Prest Ajayi?

For the next 35 years, Dr. Tosin Ajayi lived without any apparent concern that he needed to dissolve an existing marriage. For 25 years, he openly introduced Helen Prest Ajayi as his wife, built a family with her, and lived that life publicly. His actions suggest that he did not believe there was a marriage requiring dissolution.

The court also heard evidence from Adenike Ajayi herself that she was unable to authenticate the alleged marriage in the manner required by law because the marriage certificate could not be found in the official registry.

The court further had before it an earlier consent judgment relating to participation in Dr. Tosin Ajayi's funeral. In those proceedings, Adenike Ajayi entered into a consent judgment recognising both herself and Helen Prest Ajayi as co-wives. That judgment was tendered and admitted into evidence by Adenike Ajayi herself. It is difficult to understand why the trial court failed to attach due weight to that earlier judicial record.

Respectfully, these are matters that deserved far greater consideration.

Taken together, these are not minor issues. They are significant pieces of evidence which, it is respectfully maintained, were not given the weight they deserved.

They also raise a simple question deserving careful consideration: if there was no marriage that could be legally established, what exactly was there to divorce?

Moreover, the evidence before the court showed that in 2010, Adenike Yemisi Ajayi attended her own daughter's wedding in London, a wedding organised by Helen Prest Ajayi, the widow of Dr. Tosin Ajayi. The seating arrangements, prepared by Adenike Ajayi's own daughter, Mayowa Okeowo (née Ajayi), placed Dr. Tosin Ajayi and Helen Prest Ajayi together as husband and wife, while Adenike Ajayi was seated at another table.

There was no protest.

There was no objection.

There was no legal action.

For more than 35 years, there was no public, private or business relationship between Adenike Yemisi Ajayi and Dr. Tosin Ajayi. There was no evidence of a continuing marriage. There was no attempt to prevent him from openly living his life with another woman for a quarter of a century.

That silence speaks volumes.

The unfortunate reality is that the wealth Adenike Ajayi could not access during Dr. Tosin Ajayi's lifetime is the wealth she now seeks to access after his death. It appears she believes that because Dr. Tosin Ajayi is no longer alive, he cannot answer for himself.

But if the dead cannot speak, their lives can.

For the last 35 years of his life, Dr. Tosin Ajayi's actions consistently pointed in one direction. He left Adenike Ajayi and never returned. He had no relationship with her, publicly or privately. He did not share a home with her, build a life with her, or present her to the world as his wife. Instead, he chose to spend the next 25 years building a home and family with Helen Prest Ajayi.

His conduct over three and a half decades strongly suggests that he wanted nothing further to do with Adenike Ajayi. Those were not the actions of a man who intended to preserve a marital relationship. They were the actions of a man who had made a deliberate and enduring choice about how—and with whom—he wished to live his life.

That is why many find this outcome difficult to understand. The judgment now has the effect of redirecting the fruits of Dr. Tosin Ajayi's lifetime's work to someone with whom, by his own consistent conduct over 35 years, he demonstrated no intention of resuming any relationship.

A further question naturally arises. If there were no substantial estate to inherit, would Adenike Ajayi still be asserting that she was Dr. Tosin Ajayi's only wife?

This case is about far more than money. It concerns the reputation and legacy of Dr. Tosin Ajayi, a man who can no longer defend himself.

Dr. Tosin Ajayi can no longer come before any court to explain why he left Adenike Ajayi 35 years ago and never returned, why he spent the next 25 years with Helen Prest Ajayi, why he openly presented her as his wife, or why he lived his life exactly as he did.

But he did leave something behind.

He left the evidence of the life he lived.

The evidence of how he lived the final 35 years of his life cannot simply be brushed aside. His conduct, his relationships, and the life he openly lived tell a story that no witness can rewrite.

That is why it is respectfully maintained that the learned trial judge reached a conclusion that was against the weight of the evidence.

In the end, Dr. Tosin Ajayi has spoken—not with words, but through the choices he made during his lifetime. Those choices deserve to be given the weight they warrant.

The question the public is entitled to ask is this: should a court disregard the clear choices a person made throughout the final 35 years of his life and redirect the fruits of his lifetime's work in a manner inconsistent with those choices, particularly when those choices were open, consistent and never challenged while he was alive?


IF THERE WAS NO ESTATE, WOULD THERE STILL BE A FIGHT?

For more than 35 years, Dr. Tosin Ajayi lived a life that everyone could see.

He left Adenike Ajayi over 35 years ago.

He never returned.

He spent 25 years openly building a home and family with Helen Prest Ajayi.

There was no challenge during his lifetime.

Only after his death did the battle over his estate begin.

The question many people are now asking is simple:

If there were no substantial estate to inherit, would anyone still be claiming to be Dr. Tosin Ajayi's only wife?

This case is about more than money.

It is about whether the choices a person makes throughout his lifetime should still matter after he is gone.


THE EVIDENCE SPOKE. WAS IT GIVEN THE WEIGHT IT DESERVED?

This case is not simply about an estate. It is about the weight that should be given to undisputed facts.

Adenike Ajayi admitted in court that she could not authenticate the alleged marriage because the marriage certificate could not be found in the official registry.

She also accepted an earlier consent judgment recognising both herself and Helen Prest Ajayi as co-wives.

Dr. Tosin Ajayi then spent the final 35 years of his life living openly apart from Adenike Ajayi and building a family with Helen Prest Ajayi.

These facts were before the court.

It is respectfully maintained that they deserved greater weight.

The dead cannot speak.

But the lives they lived and the evidence they leave behind should never be ignored.


DR. TOSIN AJAYI LEFT ADENIKE AJAYI 35 YEARS AGO. WHY SHOULD HIS CHOICES COUNT FOR NOTHING NOW?

The dead cannot speak. But their lives speak for them.

Dr. Tosin Ajayi left Adenike Ajayi over 35 years before his death. Ten years later, he met his widow, Helen Prest Ajayi, built a new family with her, and spent the next 25 years openly living as her husband.

If Adenike Ajayi believed she remained his lawful wife, why did she never challenge him while he was alive?

Why no court action?

Why no application for maintenance?

Why no protest?

Why 35 years of silence?

The evidence before the court also showed that Adenike Ajayi admitted she could not authenticate the alleged marriage as prescribed by law because the marriage certificate could not be found in the official registry. The court also had before it an earlier consent judgment recognising both women as co-wives.

These are not minor issues.

Dr. Tosin Ajayi can no longer speak for himself. But the life he lived speaks loudly.

The question the public is entitled to ask is this: should the clear choices a person made throughout the final 35 years of his life be ignored after his death?

PCMM to host Cultural Hangout Festival to Mark 2026 International Migrants Day

PCMM to host Cultural Hangout Festival to Mark 2026 International Migrants Day

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



ABUJA, NIGERIA – The Platform for Cooperation on Mixed Migration (PCMM) has announced the decentralization of the 2026 International Migrants Day celebrations. This year, the organization will host a nationwide Cultural Hangout Festival (CHF) on Saturday, December 12, 2026, under the theme: "Nigeria Welcomes the World – Celebrating Migrants, Culture, Contribution and Community."


The 2026 edition will feature simultaneous festivals across five strategic Nigerian locations: Abuja, Lagos, Edo, Cross River, and Ogun. The initiative is designed to spotlight foreign nationals who have made Nigeria their home, whether for work, study, investment, or family-building, reframing the national narrative around the positive impacts of migration.


International Migrants Day, officially observed globally on December 18, serves as a poignant reminder of the dignity and essential contributions of migrants. For the 2026 festival, the PCMM aims to move beyond policy discussions to celebrate the real-life stories and economic contributions of those who have integrated into the Nigerian social fabric.


Mr. Victor Aihawu, the pioneer of the PCMM, emphasized that the event is specifically tailored to recognize the diverse roles migrants play in Nigeria’s development. "The festival will focus strictly on foreign nationals who have come to Nigeria to live, work, study, trade, invest, build families and contribute to society," Aihawu explained. "This event is not a refugee programme, a deportation programme, or a trafficking/returnee programme. It is a positive national celebration of migrants living and thriving in Nigeria."


The Cultural Hangout Festival is set to be a day of immersion, offering a platform where migrants are recognized not as "strangers" but as neighbors, creative partners, and entrepreneurs. By showcasing the unique heritage of foreign communities alongside Nigeria’s own rich cultural landscape, the festival aims to strengthen cross-border ties and promote a welcoming national identity.

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



ABUJA, NIGERIA – The Platform for Cooperation on Mixed Migration (PCMM) has announced the decentralization of the 2026 International Migrants Day celebrations. This year, the organization will host a nationwide Cultural Hangout Festival (CHF) on Saturday, December 12, 2026, under the theme: "Nigeria Welcomes the World – Celebrating Migrants, Culture, Contribution and Community."


The 2026 edition will feature simultaneous festivals across five strategic Nigerian locations: Abuja, Lagos, Edo, Cross River, and Ogun. The initiative is designed to spotlight foreign nationals who have made Nigeria their home, whether for work, study, investment, or family-building, reframing the national narrative around the positive impacts of migration.


International Migrants Day, officially observed globally on December 18, serves as a poignant reminder of the dignity and essential contributions of migrants. For the 2026 festival, the PCMM aims to move beyond policy discussions to celebrate the real-life stories and economic contributions of those who have integrated into the Nigerian social fabric.


Mr. Victor Aihawu, the pioneer of the PCMM, emphasized that the event is specifically tailored to recognize the diverse roles migrants play in Nigeria’s development. "The festival will focus strictly on foreign nationals who have come to Nigeria to live, work, study, trade, invest, build families and contribute to society," Aihawu explained. "This event is not a refugee programme, a deportation programme, or a trafficking/returnee programme. It is a positive national celebration of migrants living and thriving in Nigeria."


The Cultural Hangout Festival is set to be a day of immersion, offering a platform where migrants are recognized not as "strangers" but as neighbors, creative partners, and entrepreneurs. By showcasing the unique heritage of foreign communities alongside Nigeria’s own rich cultural landscape, the festival aims to strengthen cross-border ties and promote a welcoming national identity.

Mind Builders School Honors Founder Mrs. Bolajoko Falore at 70th Birthday with Maiden Lagos Symposium

Mind Builders School Honors Founder Mrs. Bolajoko Falore at 70th Birthday with Maiden Lagos Symposium

By: Manoah Kikekon 


Mrs Bolajoko Falore 

 
LAGOS, NIGERIA — What began in 1998 as a modest localized learning center with just 18 pioneer pupils and six instructors operating out of a single duplex wing in Omole Phase 1 has evolved into one of Nigeria's premier private educational institutions. Today, Mind Builders School stands as a towering beacon of academic innovation, transformative community building, and holistic child development under the enduring vision of its founder, Mrs. Bolajoko Falore.

To celebrate her landmark 70th birthday and her historic 50-year Golden Jubilee of dedicated service to the teaching profession, the Trustees of the Mind Builders Education Trust have announced the school’s maiden Annual Symposium.

Scheduled to take place on Saturday, June 20, 2026, at the ultra-modern Mind Builders School Hall within the Ikeja CBD in Alausa, Lagos, the commemorative symposium will gather distinguished administrators, policy influencers, business leaders, and academic authorities.

The event will feature high-level discourse focusing on institutional permanence, forward-thinking pedagogy, and sustainable educational management.

Keynote Speaker: Mr. Oliver Alawuba, the Group Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of United Bank for Africa (UBA) Plc.
Guest Speaker: Professor Idowu Olayinka, the esteemed former Vice-Chancellor of Nigeria's premier University of Ibadan.

For regional observers, the growth trajectory of the school serves as definitive proof of purposeful planning. Guided entirely by Mrs. Falore’s core foundational philosophy, the institution focuses explicitly on a forward-looking roadmap for its learners:

“Building Your Child for Tomorrow’s Challenges”

This foundational commitment has enabled the school to branch out from its original location into a multi-campus network, featuring an advanced annex campus at Omole Phase 2 alongside premier early-childhood development installations.

Mind Builders School was Launched in Year 1998 with 18 Pupils, 6 Teachers in a Single wing of a residential duplex in Omole Phase 1. Current Standing (2026) with 450 Active Students, 128 Academic & Support Staff, 48 Classrooms, 15+ Specialized Learning Centers, and a 9,000-Sqm Sports Complex.

The institution's current academic ecosystem includes specialized facilities such as fully stocked Physics, Chemistry, Biology, and Basic Science and Technology laboratories. It also houses state-of-the-art ICT labs, an immersive Language Room, an analytical Mathematics Clinic, an Introductory Technology Laboratory, an Art Studio, a Music Room, and modern Home Economics learning spaces.

Recognizing that the core of educational delivery rests entirely on the quality of its instructors, Mrs. Falore deliberately structured 12 dedicated rooms inside the central school complex. These spaces are reserved for the upcoming rollout of a specialized Teachers’ Training School, designed to elevate professional teaching standards across the broader West African sub-region.

This focus on cross-border excellence is not new for the institution. Between 1999 and 2015, the school routinely sponsored comprehensive study tours for its instructors and administrative heads to leading schools across South Africa and the United Kingdom, allowing its workforce to master global best practices in classroom management and institutional leadership.

Global Impact Beyond the Classroom: The ripple effect of Mind Builders' internal training systems has reached international scales. The institution has produced numerous first-class graduates from elite universities across Nigeria, Europe, and North America. Furthermore, several former faculty members have transitioned from the school to establish and manage independent educational centers across Nigeria, Canada, the United Kingdom, and the United States.

Beyond conventional classroom metrics, Mind Builders School maintains a deep, active footprint in community interventions. Driven by the founder's belief that top-tier educational access should never be restricted to affluent families, the school consistentlyfunds comprehensive scholarship programs for indigent students, protects learning pipelines for vulnerable children, and regularly donates structural resources to upgrade neighboring public schools.

On a macro level, Mrs. Falore has continuously steered national education policy through executive contributions within prominent regulatory groups. These include active leadership tenures across:

The National Association of Proprietors of Private Schools (NAPPS). The Association of Private Educators in Nigeria (APEN). The World Organization for Early Childhood Education (OMEP)
By: Manoah Kikekon 


Mrs Bolajoko Falore 

 
LAGOS, NIGERIA — What began in 1998 as a modest localized learning center with just 18 pioneer pupils and six instructors operating out of a single duplex wing in Omole Phase 1 has evolved into one of Nigeria's premier private educational institutions. Today, Mind Builders School stands as a towering beacon of academic innovation, transformative community building, and holistic child development under the enduring vision of its founder, Mrs. Bolajoko Falore.

To celebrate her landmark 70th birthday and her historic 50-year Golden Jubilee of dedicated service to the teaching profession, the Trustees of the Mind Builders Education Trust have announced the school’s maiden Annual Symposium.

Scheduled to take place on Saturday, June 20, 2026, at the ultra-modern Mind Builders School Hall within the Ikeja CBD in Alausa, Lagos, the commemorative symposium will gather distinguished administrators, policy influencers, business leaders, and academic authorities.

The event will feature high-level discourse focusing on institutional permanence, forward-thinking pedagogy, and sustainable educational management.

Keynote Speaker: Mr. Oliver Alawuba, the Group Managing Director and Chief Executive Officer of United Bank for Africa (UBA) Plc.
Guest Speaker: Professor Idowu Olayinka, the esteemed former Vice-Chancellor of Nigeria's premier University of Ibadan.

For regional observers, the growth trajectory of the school serves as definitive proof of purposeful planning. Guided entirely by Mrs. Falore’s core foundational philosophy, the institution focuses explicitly on a forward-looking roadmap for its learners:

“Building Your Child for Tomorrow’s Challenges”

This foundational commitment has enabled the school to branch out from its original location into a multi-campus network, featuring an advanced annex campus at Omole Phase 2 alongside premier early-childhood development installations.

Mind Builders School was Launched in Year 1998 with 18 Pupils, 6 Teachers in a Single wing of a residential duplex in Omole Phase 1. Current Standing (2026) with 450 Active Students, 128 Academic & Support Staff, 48 Classrooms, 15+ Specialized Learning Centers, and a 9,000-Sqm Sports Complex.

The institution's current academic ecosystem includes specialized facilities such as fully stocked Physics, Chemistry, Biology, and Basic Science and Technology laboratories. It also houses state-of-the-art ICT labs, an immersive Language Room, an analytical Mathematics Clinic, an Introductory Technology Laboratory, an Art Studio, a Music Room, and modern Home Economics learning spaces.

Recognizing that the core of educational delivery rests entirely on the quality of its instructors, Mrs. Falore deliberately structured 12 dedicated rooms inside the central school complex. These spaces are reserved for the upcoming rollout of a specialized Teachers’ Training School, designed to elevate professional teaching standards across the broader West African sub-region.

This focus on cross-border excellence is not new for the institution. Between 1999 and 2015, the school routinely sponsored comprehensive study tours for its instructors and administrative heads to leading schools across South Africa and the United Kingdom, allowing its workforce to master global best practices in classroom management and institutional leadership.

Global Impact Beyond the Classroom: The ripple effect of Mind Builders' internal training systems has reached international scales. The institution has produced numerous first-class graduates from elite universities across Nigeria, Europe, and North America. Furthermore, several former faculty members have transitioned from the school to establish and manage independent educational centers across Nigeria, Canada, the United Kingdom, and the United States.

Beyond conventional classroom metrics, Mind Builders School maintains a deep, active footprint in community interventions. Driven by the founder's belief that top-tier educational access should never be restricted to affluent families, the school consistentlyfunds comprehensive scholarship programs for indigent students, protects learning pipelines for vulnerable children, and regularly donates structural resources to upgrade neighboring public schools.

On a macro level, Mrs. Falore has continuously steered national education policy through executive contributions within prominent regulatory groups. These include active leadership tenures across:

The National Association of Proprietors of Private Schools (NAPPS). The Association of Private Educators in Nigeria (APEN). The World Organization for Early Childhood Education (OMEP)

Deaf Awareness Day: Badagry Champions Deaf Rights with "Sign Language is a Human Right"

Deaf Awareness Day: Badagry Champions Deaf Rights with "Sign Language is a Human Right"

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



The Badagry community witnessed affirmation of inclusion as the Badagry Deaf Association (BDA), in collaboration with the Lagos State Association of the Deaf, successfully hosted the 4th Edition of its Deaf Awareness Day.


 The significant event, held on Wednesday, September 24, 2025, at the Badagry Local Government Secretariat, resonated with the compelling theme, “No Human Rights Without Sign Language Rights.” 


The gathering served as a crucial platform for advocacy, uniting government officials, community leaders, and members of the Deaf community to address barriers and chart a path toward genuine equality in the historic town of Badagry, Lagos State.

 


Hon. Babatunde Hunpe, the Executive Chairman of Badagry Local Government, Babatunde Hunpe, made a landmark commitment to the community. He declared, “To us in Badagry Local Government, we want to say we are with you. Very soon, you'll have your office in the local government, where you can boldly say you are part of the government.” 


This pledge to establish a dedicated office for persons with disabilities signifies a major step towards institutionalizing inclusion, providing a formal channel for the community to lodge complaints, advise the government, and ensure their needs are met directly by the authorities in Badagry.


The Commissioner for Youth and Social Development, Hon. Mobolaji Ogunlende, represented by Ajande Pascal Viweavo, delivered an inspiring message. He urged the Deaf community to remember that “disability is not inability” and that their “silence does not mean weakness.” 


His speech was a direct call to action for community leaders and employers across Lagos State, emphasizing that “true inclusion begins when we show understanding and respect in our daily actions.” He assured the attendees, “Badagry sees you. Lagos State sees you. And the world hears your voice, even in silence,” reinforcing the government’s recognition of their contributions.


Ekundayo Sejoro, Chairman of the Badagry Deaf Association. He highlighted the daily challenges faced by the Deaf in Badagry, including a critical lack of sign language interpreters in schools and hospitals. Mr. Sejoro issued a direct appeal to Lagos State House of Assembly members, Hon. Solomon Bonu and Hon. Setonji David, urging them to prioritize the welfare of their constituents by appointing a Senior Special Assistant on Disability Matters. 


Stating that “the level of negligence is too high,” the association also called for the establishment of disability desks at the Local Government Secretariat and Badagry General Hospital to ensure accessible services.


Mrs. Elsie Rose Akerele, Founder of the Lady Atinuke Oyindamola Memorial Home, unequivocally stated, “Sign language is not a privilege, it is indeed a right.” Her words encapsulated the day’s central message, framing sign language as an essential tool for education, communication, and societal participation. 


The 4th Deaf Awareness Day in Badagry stands as a pivotal moment, not just for celebration but for actionable change, setting a clear agenda for government bodies and the wider community to break down barriers and build a society where every citizen, hearing or Deaf, can thrive with dignity.

 By: Manoah Kikekon 



The Badagry community witnessed affirmation of inclusion as the Badagry Deaf Association (BDA), in collaboration with the Lagos State Association of the Deaf, successfully hosted the 4th Edition of its Deaf Awareness Day.


 The significant event, held on Wednesday, September 24, 2025, at the Badagry Local Government Secretariat, resonated with the compelling theme, “No Human Rights Without Sign Language Rights.” 


The gathering served as a crucial platform for advocacy, uniting government officials, community leaders, and members of the Deaf community to address barriers and chart a path toward genuine equality in the historic town of Badagry, Lagos State.

 


Hon. Babatunde Hunpe, the Executive Chairman of Badagry Local Government, Babatunde Hunpe, made a landmark commitment to the community. He declared, “To us in Badagry Local Government, we want to say we are with you. Very soon, you'll have your office in the local government, where you can boldly say you are part of the government.” 


This pledge to establish a dedicated office for persons with disabilities signifies a major step towards institutionalizing inclusion, providing a formal channel for the community to lodge complaints, advise the government, and ensure their needs are met directly by the authorities in Badagry.


The Commissioner for Youth and Social Development, Hon. Mobolaji Ogunlende, represented by Ajande Pascal Viweavo, delivered an inspiring message. He urged the Deaf community to remember that “disability is not inability” and that their “silence does not mean weakness.” 


His speech was a direct call to action for community leaders and employers across Lagos State, emphasizing that “true inclusion begins when we show understanding and respect in our daily actions.” He assured the attendees, “Badagry sees you. Lagos State sees you. And the world hears your voice, even in silence,” reinforcing the government’s recognition of their contributions.


Ekundayo Sejoro, Chairman of the Badagry Deaf Association. He highlighted the daily challenges faced by the Deaf in Badagry, including a critical lack of sign language interpreters in schools and hospitals. Mr. Sejoro issued a direct appeal to Lagos State House of Assembly members, Hon. Solomon Bonu and Hon. Setonji David, urging them to prioritize the welfare of their constituents by appointing a Senior Special Assistant on Disability Matters. 


Stating that “the level of negligence is too high,” the association also called for the establishment of disability desks at the Local Government Secretariat and Badagry General Hospital to ensure accessible services.


Mrs. Elsie Rose Akerele, Founder of the Lady Atinuke Oyindamola Memorial Home, unequivocally stated, “Sign language is not a privilege, it is indeed a right.” Her words encapsulated the day’s central message, framing sign language as an essential tool for education, communication, and societal participation. 


The 4th Deaf Awareness Day in Badagry stands as a pivotal moment, not just for celebration but for actionable change, setting a clear agenda for government bodies and the wider community to break down barriers and build a society where every citizen, hearing or Deaf, can thrive with dignity.

Beyond Life Struggle: How Challenges Becomes Your Strength

Beyond Life Struggle: How Challenges Becomes Your Strength

 By: Joy Samuel 


Joy Samuel 


Life is an intricate journey of peaks and valleys. Regardless of our background or status, challenges are a universal part of the human experience. They arrive in countless forms, serving as a powerful reminder that life is not always a bed of roses, but a complex blend of victories and obstacles.


What Are Life Struggles?

Life struggles are the challenges, obstacles, and difficulties we encounter while pursuing our goals or simply striving to survive. These hurdles can range from minor daily setbacks to profound difficulties beyond our control. Ultimately, they test our patience, strength, and character, pushing us to evolve.


The 5 Common Struggles We Face Daily

The battles we fight are multifaceted, often falling into these key categories:

* Financial Struggles: The relentless stress of unemployment, poverty, debt, and the daily effort to make ends meet.

* Emotional Struggles: The deep pain of heartbreak, loneliness, chronic stress, and betrayal from trusted loved ones.

* Physical Struggles: Ongoing health challenges, disabilities, and the sheer exhaustion that comes from daily labor.

* Social Struggles: The weight of discrimination, family conflicts, negative peer pressure, and the immense pressure to conform to society's expectations.

* Mental Struggles: The internal battles against anxiety, depression, and pervasive self-doubt.


Each type of struggle affects us uniquely, yet they all fundamentally shape our perspective on life.


What Causes Life's Challenges?

The roots of our struggles are diverse. Some stem from our own actions, such as poor decision-making, inadequate planning, or a lack of self-discipline. However, many are imposed upon us by circumstances outside our control a sudden illness, a natural disaster, or a widespread economic downturn. The universal truth is that no one is exempt; struggle is a shared human condition.


The Transformative Impact of Struggle

Struggles are not a punishment. While they can be painful, breaking us down with discouragement and frustration, they also possess the power to build us back up stronger. They are profound teachers of resilience, wisdom, and patience. An individual who has never struggled may not fully appreciate success, but those who have walked through the fire understand the true value of victory.


How to Navigate Your Daily Struggles Effectively

Your response to challenges matters more than the struggles themselves. Here’s how to build resilience:

* Cultivate a Positive Mindset: Actively refuse to surrender to negativity. Your perspective is your most powerful tool.

* Seek Support: You don’t have to face it alone. Lean on trusted friends, family, or a professional mentor for guidance and strength.

* Nurture Faith and Hope: Hold onto your spiritual beliefs. Keeping hope alive and seeking divine direction can provide immense comfort and clarity.

* Re-strategize and Act: Reassess your approach. Set clear, achievable goals, manage your time effectively, and commit to improving existing skills or learning new ones.


The Hidden Teacher in Every Challenge

Struggles are mentors in disguise. They teach us that failure is not a final destination but a critical part of the journey to success. In fact, every great leader, inventor, and achiever has endured a phase of immense struggle before reaching their goals.


Hope is the light that pierces the darkest tunnel, and perseverance is the engine that drives us forward. Armed with these two forces, no struggle is too heavy to overcome.


The struggles of life are not meant to destroy us; they are designed to build us into better, stronger versions of ourselves. When facing these challenges, remember that storms are always temporary. The size of the problem is less important than the strength of your response. By keeping faith, nurturing hope, and remaining resilient, your greatest pains will one day become your most powerful testimonies.

 By: Joy Samuel 


Joy Samuel 


Life is an intricate journey of peaks and valleys. Regardless of our background or status, challenges are a universal part of the human experience. They arrive in countless forms, serving as a powerful reminder that life is not always a bed of roses, but a complex blend of victories and obstacles.


What Are Life Struggles?

Life struggles are the challenges, obstacles, and difficulties we encounter while pursuing our goals or simply striving to survive. These hurdles can range from minor daily setbacks to profound difficulties beyond our control. Ultimately, they test our patience, strength, and character, pushing us to evolve.


The 5 Common Struggles We Face Daily

The battles we fight are multifaceted, often falling into these key categories:

* Financial Struggles: The relentless stress of unemployment, poverty, debt, and the daily effort to make ends meet.

* Emotional Struggles: The deep pain of heartbreak, loneliness, chronic stress, and betrayal from trusted loved ones.

* Physical Struggles: Ongoing health challenges, disabilities, and the sheer exhaustion that comes from daily labor.

* Social Struggles: The weight of discrimination, family conflicts, negative peer pressure, and the immense pressure to conform to society's expectations.

* Mental Struggles: The internal battles against anxiety, depression, and pervasive self-doubt.


Each type of struggle affects us uniquely, yet they all fundamentally shape our perspective on life.


What Causes Life's Challenges?

The roots of our struggles are diverse. Some stem from our own actions, such as poor decision-making, inadequate planning, or a lack of self-discipline. However, many are imposed upon us by circumstances outside our control a sudden illness, a natural disaster, or a widespread economic downturn. The universal truth is that no one is exempt; struggle is a shared human condition.


The Transformative Impact of Struggle

Struggles are not a punishment. While they can be painful, breaking us down with discouragement and frustration, they also possess the power to build us back up stronger. They are profound teachers of resilience, wisdom, and patience. An individual who has never struggled may not fully appreciate success, but those who have walked through the fire understand the true value of victory.


How to Navigate Your Daily Struggles Effectively

Your response to challenges matters more than the struggles themselves. Here’s how to build resilience:

* Cultivate a Positive Mindset: Actively refuse to surrender to negativity. Your perspective is your most powerful tool.

* Seek Support: You don’t have to face it alone. Lean on trusted friends, family, or a professional mentor for guidance and strength.

* Nurture Faith and Hope: Hold onto your spiritual beliefs. Keeping hope alive and seeking divine direction can provide immense comfort and clarity.

* Re-strategize and Act: Reassess your approach. Set clear, achievable goals, manage your time effectively, and commit to improving existing skills or learning new ones.


The Hidden Teacher in Every Challenge

Struggles are mentors in disguise. They teach us that failure is not a final destination but a critical part of the journey to success. In fact, every great leader, inventor, and achiever has endured a phase of immense struggle before reaching their goals.


Hope is the light that pierces the darkest tunnel, and perseverance is the engine that drives us forward. Armed with these two forces, no struggle is too heavy to overcome.


The struggles of life are not meant to destroy us; they are designed to build us into better, stronger versions of ourselves. When facing these challenges, remember that storms are always temporary. The size of the problem is less important than the strength of your response. By keeping faith, nurturing hope, and remaining resilient, your greatest pains will one day become your most powerful testimonies.

The Art of Letting Go: A Guide to Freedom and Growth

The Art of Letting Go: A Guide to Freedom and Growth

By: Joy Samuel


Joy Samuel 


Letting go is one of life's difficult lessons, but it is also one of the most liberating. We often cling tightly to people, past mistakes, and old memories, fearing that releasing them will leave an emptiness within. In truth, the act of letting go is not about loss; it's about making space for peace, growth, and new beginnings.


Why Is It So Important to Let Go?

Holding onto pain and regret creates a filter that distorts our view of the world and ourselves. It breeds self-doubt and holds us back from becoming who we are meant to be. When we choose to let go, we remove that filter. We begin to see opportunities and insights that were previously invisible. This clarity pushes us to accomplish tasks and reach milestones we never thought possible, freeing us to move forward unburdened.


The Challenges: How Holding On Affects Us

The process of letting go has two potential sides: one of liberation and one of struggle. The difficult side is real and can profoundly affect us. When people are hurt, they may make grievous mistakes or take risks that aren't worth it. They can struggle to control their emotions, experience drained mental health, and find themselves in unhealthy situations simply because they are in pain.


This can lead to dwelling in misery, prolonged isolation, and shutting people out. It's crucial to recognize that while these struggles can be a painful part of the growth journey, you do not have to endure them alone. Seeking help from friends, family, or a professional is a sign of strength, not weakness, especially when the going gets tough.


The Advantages: How Letting Go Helps You Heal

On the other side of the struggle is profound healing. Letting go amends old wounds, restores your spirit, and replenishes your energy. It waters the seeds of your personal growth, allowing a better version of yourself to emerge. This process helps you retrace your steps, understand what you truly need to heal, and build resilience. While rough situations are inevitable, your reaction to them defines your path.


Does Letting Go Reveal New Possibilities?

Absolutely. Letting go allows you to see beyond immediate impossibilities. It creates mental space for hope and provides the room you need to grow. As you release the past, you often discover capabilities and strengths you never knew you had. Talents and dreams that never crossed your mind suddenly become clear, opening doors to a future full of potential.


When Should You Make Room for Letting Go?

The right time to let go is now. Making a conscious room for this practice improves your ability to think clearly, reignites your creativity, and fosters an atmosphere for positive opportunities to re-enter your life. It restores your self-confidence and boosts your morale, setting the stage for good tidings.


Encouragement to Take the Step

Do not let your limitations define you. Do not hide behind your flaws. Everyone experiences mistakes, betrayal, and a broken heart. These events are chapters in your story, but they are not the whole book. Remember, sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life. Take that step today. Choose to let go, and unlock the door to your freedom.

By: Joy Samuel


Joy Samuel 


Letting go is one of life's difficult lessons, but it is also one of the most liberating. We often cling tightly to people, past mistakes, and old memories, fearing that releasing them will leave an emptiness within. In truth, the act of letting go is not about loss; it's about making space for peace, growth, and new beginnings.


Why Is It So Important to Let Go?

Holding onto pain and regret creates a filter that distorts our view of the world and ourselves. It breeds self-doubt and holds us back from becoming who we are meant to be. When we choose to let go, we remove that filter. We begin to see opportunities and insights that were previously invisible. This clarity pushes us to accomplish tasks and reach milestones we never thought possible, freeing us to move forward unburdened.


The Challenges: How Holding On Affects Us

The process of letting go has two potential sides: one of liberation and one of struggle. The difficult side is real and can profoundly affect us. When people are hurt, they may make grievous mistakes or take risks that aren't worth it. They can struggle to control their emotions, experience drained mental health, and find themselves in unhealthy situations simply because they are in pain.


This can lead to dwelling in misery, prolonged isolation, and shutting people out. It's crucial to recognize that while these struggles can be a painful part of the growth journey, you do not have to endure them alone. Seeking help from friends, family, or a professional is a sign of strength, not weakness, especially when the going gets tough.


The Advantages: How Letting Go Helps You Heal

On the other side of the struggle is profound healing. Letting go amends old wounds, restores your spirit, and replenishes your energy. It waters the seeds of your personal growth, allowing a better version of yourself to emerge. This process helps you retrace your steps, understand what you truly need to heal, and build resilience. While rough situations are inevitable, your reaction to them defines your path.


Does Letting Go Reveal New Possibilities?

Absolutely. Letting go allows you to see beyond immediate impossibilities. It creates mental space for hope and provides the room you need to grow. As you release the past, you often discover capabilities and strengths you never knew you had. Talents and dreams that never crossed your mind suddenly become clear, opening doors to a future full of potential.


When Should You Make Room for Letting Go?

The right time to let go is now. Making a conscious room for this practice improves your ability to think clearly, reignites your creativity, and fosters an atmosphere for positive opportunities to re-enter your life. It restores your self-confidence and boosts your morale, setting the stage for good tidings.


Encouragement to Take the Step

Do not let your limitations define you. Do not hide behind your flaws. Everyone experiences mistakes, betrayal, and a broken heart. These events are chapters in your story, but they are not the whole book. Remember, sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life. Take that step today. Choose to let go, and unlock the door to your freedom.

Meet Ibok-Ete Ibas: The Veteran Naval Officer Tasked with Restoring Peace in Rivers State

Meet Ibok-Ete Ibas: The Veteran Naval Officer Tasked with Restoring Peace in Rivers State

 By: Manoah Kikekon 


Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas (Rtd)


Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas (Rtd), a former Chief of Naval Staff, has been appointed as the administrator of Rivers State following President Bola Tinubu’s declaration of a state of emergency in the region.  


In a national address on Tuesday, President Tinubu announced the suspension of Governor Sim Fubara, Deputy Governor Ngozi Odu, and all members of the state House of Assembly for six months. This decision comes amid ongoing political crises in the state, with Ibas stepping in to restore stability.  


A Distinguished Career in Service

Born on September 27, 1960, in Nko, Cross River State, Ibas is a highly decorated naval officer with over four decades of service to Nigeria. He served as the 22nd Chief of Naval Staff (CNS) from July 13, 2015, to January 29, 2021, and later as Nigeria’s ambassador to Ghana.  


Educational Background

Ibas began his education at Nko Primary School and completed it at Big Qua Primary School in 1971. He attended Hope Waddell Training Institute from 1972 to 1976 and later the School of Basic Studies in Ogoja between 1977 and 1979. In 1979, he joined the Nigerian Defence Academy as part of the 26th Regular Course, commissioning as a Sub-Lieutenant on January 1, 1983.  


His professional military training includes courses at INS Venduruthy in India, the 301 Primary Flying Training School in Kaduna, the Armed Forces Command and Staff College in Jaji, the Marine Corps University in Quantico, Virginia, and the National Defence College in Islamabad, Pakistan. He also holds a master’s degree in Defence and Strategic Studies from Quaid-i-Azam University in Islamabad.  


A Stellar Naval Career

Throughout his career, Ibas held numerous key positions in the Nigerian Navy. Early on, he served on vessels such as NNS Ruwan Yaro, NNS Obuma, and NNS Aradu. He later became the executive officer of NNS Siri, NNS Ekun, and NNS Ambe between 1993 and 1996.  


His leadership roles included commanding officer of the Nigerian Navy Underwater Warfare School, commanding officer of the Forward Operating Base Ibaka, Naval provost marshal, principal staff officer to the CNS, command operations officer at Western Naval Command, commander of the Naval Air Base in Ojo, chief staff officer at Naval Training Command, chief of administration at Naval Headquarters, Navy secretary, flag officer commanding Western Naval Command, chief of logistics, and group managing director/CEO of Nigerian Navy Holdings Limited.  


Appointed Chief of Naval Staff by former President Muhammadu Buhari on July 13, 2015, Ibas concluded his military career in 2021 and was subsequently appointed as Nigeria’s ambassador to Ghana.  


Awards and Recognitions

Ibas has been honored with numerous awards for his service, including the Silver Jubilee Medal, ECOMOG Medal, Forces Service Star, Meritorious Service Star, Distinguished Service Star, and the General Service Star. In October 2022, former President Buhari conferred on him the prestigious Commander of the Order of the Federal Republic (CFR).  


Professional Affiliations and Personal Life

Ibas is a member of professional organizations such as the Nigerian Institute of International Affairs and the Nigerian Institute of Management. He is married to Theresa Ibas, and they have three children. His personal interests include reading, watching documentaries, and playing golf.  


A New Role in Rivers State

With his vast experience and proven leadership, Ibas is expected to bring stability and order to Rivers State during his six-month tenure as administrator. His appointment underscores the federal government’s commitment to resolving the state’s political challenges and restoring peace. 


(BUSINESS DAY)

 By: Manoah Kikekon 


Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas (Rtd)


Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas (Rtd), a former Chief of Naval Staff, has been appointed as the administrator of Rivers State following President Bola Tinubu’s declaration of a state of emergency in the region.  


In a national address on Tuesday, President Tinubu announced the suspension of Governor Sim Fubara, Deputy Governor Ngozi Odu, and all members of the state House of Assembly for six months. This decision comes amid ongoing political crises in the state, with Ibas stepping in to restore stability.  


A Distinguished Career in Service

Born on September 27, 1960, in Nko, Cross River State, Ibas is a highly decorated naval officer with over four decades of service to Nigeria. He served as the 22nd Chief of Naval Staff (CNS) from July 13, 2015, to January 29, 2021, and later as Nigeria’s ambassador to Ghana.  


Educational Background

Ibas began his education at Nko Primary School and completed it at Big Qua Primary School in 1971. He attended Hope Waddell Training Institute from 1972 to 1976 and later the School of Basic Studies in Ogoja between 1977 and 1979. In 1979, he joined the Nigerian Defence Academy as part of the 26th Regular Course, commissioning as a Sub-Lieutenant on January 1, 1983.  


His professional military training includes courses at INS Venduruthy in India, the 301 Primary Flying Training School in Kaduna, the Armed Forces Command and Staff College in Jaji, the Marine Corps University in Quantico, Virginia, and the National Defence College in Islamabad, Pakistan. He also holds a master’s degree in Defence and Strategic Studies from Quaid-i-Azam University in Islamabad.  


A Stellar Naval Career

Throughout his career, Ibas held numerous key positions in the Nigerian Navy. Early on, he served on vessels such as NNS Ruwan Yaro, NNS Obuma, and NNS Aradu. He later became the executive officer of NNS Siri, NNS Ekun, and NNS Ambe between 1993 and 1996.  


His leadership roles included commanding officer of the Nigerian Navy Underwater Warfare School, commanding officer of the Forward Operating Base Ibaka, Naval provost marshal, principal staff officer to the CNS, command operations officer at Western Naval Command, commander of the Naval Air Base in Ojo, chief staff officer at Naval Training Command, chief of administration at Naval Headquarters, Navy secretary, flag officer commanding Western Naval Command, chief of logistics, and group managing director/CEO of Nigerian Navy Holdings Limited.  


Appointed Chief of Naval Staff by former President Muhammadu Buhari on July 13, 2015, Ibas concluded his military career in 2021 and was subsequently appointed as Nigeria’s ambassador to Ghana.  


Awards and Recognitions

Ibas has been honored with numerous awards for his service, including the Silver Jubilee Medal, ECOMOG Medal, Forces Service Star, Meritorious Service Star, Distinguished Service Star, and the General Service Star. In October 2022, former President Buhari conferred on him the prestigious Commander of the Order of the Federal Republic (CFR).  


Professional Affiliations and Personal Life

Ibas is a member of professional organizations such as the Nigerian Institute of International Affairs and the Nigerian Institute of Management. He is married to Theresa Ibas, and they have three children. His personal interests include reading, watching documentaries, and playing golf.  


A New Role in Rivers State

With his vast experience and proven leadership, Ibas is expected to bring stability and order to Rivers State during his six-month tenure as administrator. His appointment underscores the federal government’s commitment to resolving the state’s political challenges and restoring peace. 


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Federal Judge Halts Trump’s Transgender Military Ban, Citing Constitutional Violations

Federal Judge Halts Trump’s Transgender Military Ban, Citing Constitutional Violations

 By: Manaoh Kikekon 


US Military personnel used to illustrate the story


In a landmark decision on Tuesday, a federal judge delivered a significant blow to U.S. President Donald Trump’s controversial policy banning transgender individuals from serving in the military. 


The ruling, which cited violations of the Fifth Amendment, marks a pivotal moment in the ongoing battle over LGBTQ+ rights in the armed forces.


Shortly after taking office, President Trump signed an executive order authorizing the expulsion of thousands of transgender service members. The policy was framed as part of his broader effort to combat what he termed “radical gender ideology” at the federal level. However, the move sparked immediate backlash, with several service members filing lawsuits. They argued that the ban constituted illegal discrimination and violated their constitutional right to equal protection under the law.


On Tuesday, U.S. District Judge Ana Reyes issued a scathing rebuke of the Trump administration’s policy, calling it “derogatory” and unconstitutional. In her ruling, Judge Reyes granted an injunction, allowing transgender troops to continue serving in the military. 


“The ban, at its core, employs derogatory language to target a vulnerable group, violating the Fifth Amendment,” Judge Reyes stated in her written decision. She emphasized that the Trump administration failed to provide any legal or factual justification for the policy, adding, “The law does not require the court to rubber-stamp illogical judgments based on conjecture.”


The government had argued that courts should defer to military judgment on matters pertaining to the armed forces. However, Judge Reyes firmly rejected this stance, asserting that such deference does not extend to policies that are discriminatory and lack a rational basis.


This ruling represents a critical victory for transgender service members and advocates of LGBTQ+ rights. It also underscores the judiciary’s role in upholding constitutional protections against discriminatory practices. As the legal battle continues, the injunction ensures that transgender troops can serve openly and without fear of dismissal at least for now.


The decision has reignited debates over equality, military readiness, and the role of the executive branch in shaping policy. For the approximately 4,200 transgender service members affected by the ban, the ruling offers a temporary reprieve and a glimmer of hope in their fight for equal treatment.


As the case progresses, all eyes will remain on the courts to see whether this injunction will stand and what it means for the future of transgender rights in the U.S. military. For now, Judge Reyes’ ruling serves as a powerful reminder that no group should be targeted or excluded based on who they are. 

 By: Manaoh Kikekon 


US Military personnel used to illustrate the story


In a landmark decision on Tuesday, a federal judge delivered a significant blow to U.S. President Donald Trump’s controversial policy banning transgender individuals from serving in the military. 


The ruling, which cited violations of the Fifth Amendment, marks a pivotal moment in the ongoing battle over LGBTQ+ rights in the armed forces.


Shortly after taking office, President Trump signed an executive order authorizing the expulsion of thousands of transgender service members. The policy was framed as part of his broader effort to combat what he termed “radical gender ideology” at the federal level. However, the move sparked immediate backlash, with several service members filing lawsuits. They argued that the ban constituted illegal discrimination and violated their constitutional right to equal protection under the law.


On Tuesday, U.S. District Judge Ana Reyes issued a scathing rebuke of the Trump administration’s policy, calling it “derogatory” and unconstitutional. In her ruling, Judge Reyes granted an injunction, allowing transgender troops to continue serving in the military. 


“The ban, at its core, employs derogatory language to target a vulnerable group, violating the Fifth Amendment,” Judge Reyes stated in her written decision. She emphasized that the Trump administration failed to provide any legal or factual justification for the policy, adding, “The law does not require the court to rubber-stamp illogical judgments based on conjecture.”


The government had argued that courts should defer to military judgment on matters pertaining to the armed forces. However, Judge Reyes firmly rejected this stance, asserting that such deference does not extend to policies that are discriminatory and lack a rational basis.


This ruling represents a critical victory for transgender service members and advocates of LGBTQ+ rights. It also underscores the judiciary’s role in upholding constitutional protections against discriminatory practices. As the legal battle continues, the injunction ensures that transgender troops can serve openly and without fear of dismissal at least for now.


The decision has reignited debates over equality, military readiness, and the role of the executive branch in shaping policy. For the approximately 4,200 transgender service members affected by the ban, the ruling offers a temporary reprieve and a glimmer of hope in their fight for equal treatment.


As the case progresses, all eyes will remain on the courts to see whether this injunction will stand and what it means for the future of transgender rights in the U.S. military. For now, Judge Reyes’ ruling serves as a powerful reminder that no group should be targeted or excluded based on who they are. 

MBGB 2025: Why Ladies Should Raise the Bar - Eritomi Joel

MBGB 2025: Why Ladies Should Raise the Bar - Eritomi Joel

By: Manoah kikekon 


Eritomi Joel 


Eritomi Joel, the 2nd runner-up and the best-behaved model at the Most Beautiful Girl in Badagry 2025 (MBGB), has called on ladies to raise their bar of good behaviour as she shares how she emerged as the best-behaved model.


In an interview with News Peddlers correspondent, she said despite the fact that good behaviour is good, it's not easy to practice it takes dedication and determination.


In Eritomi's words, "Have you ever noticed how good behaviour can completely transform your life and relationships? It's like a superpower that earns you respect, builds confidence, and attracts positivity.


But, let's get real. Behaving well isn't always easy. There are days when you feel like throwing tantrums, days when you want to give up, and days when you just want to eat an entire pizza by yourself (no judgement, though!).


Despite the challenges, good behavior is worth it. In this piece, we'll explore the importance of good behavior, its benefits, and some practical tips to help you raise the bar.


Benefits of Good Behaviour: Good behaviour is like a magnet that attracts all things good. Here are just a few benefits: When you behave well, you earn respect from others. It's like having a superpower that makes people take you seriously. Good behavior boosts your confidence. You feel more self-assured, empowered, and prepared to take on the world.


Behaving well fosters positive relationships. You attract people who appreciate your kindness, empathy, and compassion.


I'd like to share a personal experience that illustrates the power of good behavior. I was once a contestant in the "Most Beautiful Girl in Badagry" pageantry. Throughout the competition, I made a conscious effort to exhibit good behaviour towards my colleagues, despite the challenges I faced.


Some of my colleagues and even a few organisers would try to frustrate me and get under my skin. But I refused to let their negativity bring me down. Instead, I focused on being my best self and making myself proud.


I believe that life shows us how we want to be treated, and it's up to us to treat others with kindness and respect. As a quiet person, I've learnt that tone and manner of speaking really matter. If someone speaks to me in a disrespectful tone, I simply remain calm, quiet, and composed, looking at them as if they're not speaking to me.


My good behaviour didn't go unnoticed. I was awarded the "Best Behaved Model" of the pageantry, which was an incredible feeling.


Tips for Good Behaviour:

Now that we've covered the benefits, here are some practical tips to help you behave well:

Practice Self-Awareness: Understand your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Take time to reflect on your values, strengths, and weaknesses.


Establish healthy boundaries to maintain positive relationships and prioritise your needs. Treat others with kindness, empathy, and compassion. Practice active listening, ask open-ended questions, and show genuine interest in others.


Good behaviour is a choice, ladies. It's a choice to raise the bar, to earn respect, and to attract positivity. Remember, behaving well isn't about being perfect; it's about being authentic, empathetic, and compassionate. So, go ahead and make the choice to behave well. Your relationships, confidence, and overall well-being will thank you

By: Manoah kikekon 


Eritomi Joel 


Eritomi Joel, the 2nd runner-up and the best-behaved model at the Most Beautiful Girl in Badagry 2025 (MBGB), has called on ladies to raise their bar of good behaviour as she shares how she emerged as the best-behaved model.


In an interview with News Peddlers correspondent, she said despite the fact that good behaviour is good, it's not easy to practice it takes dedication and determination.


In Eritomi's words, "Have you ever noticed how good behaviour can completely transform your life and relationships? It's like a superpower that earns you respect, builds confidence, and attracts positivity.


But, let's get real. Behaving well isn't always easy. There are days when you feel like throwing tantrums, days when you want to give up, and days when you just want to eat an entire pizza by yourself (no judgement, though!).


Despite the challenges, good behavior is worth it. In this piece, we'll explore the importance of good behavior, its benefits, and some practical tips to help you raise the bar.


Benefits of Good Behaviour: Good behaviour is like a magnet that attracts all things good. Here are just a few benefits: When you behave well, you earn respect from others. It's like having a superpower that makes people take you seriously. Good behavior boosts your confidence. You feel more self-assured, empowered, and prepared to take on the world.


Behaving well fosters positive relationships. You attract people who appreciate your kindness, empathy, and compassion.


I'd like to share a personal experience that illustrates the power of good behavior. I was once a contestant in the "Most Beautiful Girl in Badagry" pageantry. Throughout the competition, I made a conscious effort to exhibit good behaviour towards my colleagues, despite the challenges I faced.


Some of my colleagues and even a few organisers would try to frustrate me and get under my skin. But I refused to let their negativity bring me down. Instead, I focused on being my best self and making myself proud.


I believe that life shows us how we want to be treated, and it's up to us to treat others with kindness and respect. As a quiet person, I've learnt that tone and manner of speaking really matter. If someone speaks to me in a disrespectful tone, I simply remain calm, quiet, and composed, looking at them as if they're not speaking to me.


My good behaviour didn't go unnoticed. I was awarded the "Best Behaved Model" of the pageantry, which was an incredible feeling.


Tips for Good Behaviour:

Now that we've covered the benefits, here are some practical tips to help you behave well:

Practice Self-Awareness: Understand your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Take time to reflect on your values, strengths, and weaknesses.


Establish healthy boundaries to maintain positive relationships and prioritise your needs. Treat others with kindness, empathy, and compassion. Practice active listening, ask open-ended questions, and show genuine interest in others.


Good behaviour is a choice, ladies. It's a choice to raise the bar, to earn respect, and to attract positivity. Remember, behaving well isn't about being perfect; it's about being authentic, empathetic, and compassionate. So, go ahead and make the choice to behave well. Your relationships, confidence, and overall well-being will thank you

My day Dream By: Joel Eritomi

My day Dream By: Joel Eritomi

By:  Joel Eritomi 


Joel Eritomi 



Lost in thought, my mind begins to wander to a place of vibrant colors and endless possibilities. I find myself daydreaming of a world where I am the architect of my own destiny, crafting a life that is authentic, meaningful, and fulfilling.


In this world, I imagine myself waking up each morning with a sense of purpose and direction. I see myself cultivating healthier habits, such as meditating, journaling, and exercising, to nourish my mind, body, and soul. I envision myself surrounded by loving relationships, built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication.

As I daydream, I see myself pursuing my passions with reckless abandon, unencumbered by fear, doubt, or uncertainty. I imagine myself learning new skills, exploring new interests, and pushing beyond my comfort zone to discover new strengths and talents. I envision myself making a positive impact on the world, using my gifts and abilities to uplift and inspire others.


In this world, I am free to be myself, without apology or pretension. I am free to make mistakes, to learn from them, and to grow into a wiser, more compassionate version of myself. I am free to chase my dreams, to pursue my heart's desires, and to create a life that is truly my own.


As I continue to daydream, I feel a sense of excitement and anticipation building within me. I feel a sense of hope and possibility, knowing that this world is not just a fantasy but a reality that I can create for myself. I am inspired to take action, to make conscious choices, and to cultivate the habits and mindset necessary to bring this vision to life.

By:  Joel Eritomi 


Joel Eritomi 



Lost in thought, my mind begins to wander to a place of vibrant colors and endless possibilities. I find myself daydreaming of a world where I am the architect of my own destiny, crafting a life that is authentic, meaningful, and fulfilling.


In this world, I imagine myself waking up each morning with a sense of purpose and direction. I see myself cultivating healthier habits, such as meditating, journaling, and exercising, to nourish my mind, body, and soul. I envision myself surrounded by loving relationships, built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication.

As I daydream, I see myself pursuing my passions with reckless abandon, unencumbered by fear, doubt, or uncertainty. I imagine myself learning new skills, exploring new interests, and pushing beyond my comfort zone to discover new strengths and talents. I envision myself making a positive impact on the world, using my gifts and abilities to uplift and inspire others.


In this world, I am free to be myself, without apology or pretension. I am free to make mistakes, to learn from them, and to grow into a wiser, more compassionate version of myself. I am free to chase my dreams, to pursue my heart's desires, and to create a life that is truly my own.


As I continue to daydream, I feel a sense of excitement and anticipation building within me. I feel a sense of hope and possibility, knowing that this world is not just a fantasy but a reality that I can create for myself. I am inspired to take action, to make conscious choices, and to cultivate the habits and mindset necessary to bring this vision to life.

EXCLUSIVE: Badagry resident cries out as wife and daughter remain missing after 10 years

EXCLUSIVE: Badagry resident cries out as wife and daughter remain missing after 10 years

By: Manoah Kikekon

 

Ajovi Yenukunme joy and  Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail


It is 10 years since Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail, disappeared with her daughter Ajovi Yenukunme Joy, 3 years on, as of 2015, when they left without traces.


Abigail and her husband Mr. Ajovi Noah, who was residing in Itoga, Badagry, Lagos State at the time she disappeared, remains missing up to this moment, as the relatives are calling on anyone who must have seen her anywhere to alert the police.

The husband, in an interview narrated the ordeal: my name is Ajovi Noah the name of my daughter is Ajovi Yenukunme Joy, Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigirl She went missing on 15 January 2016.

Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail 

Qust. You said totally was she missing at some point before then?

Yes, she left home on 15th January 2015 for the first time, staying with one teacher, my daughter. Before the family brought her back, she then went for another six months. The family found her again, and they called me She stayed about a week and then disappeared again, then came back in December 2015, then stayed with me at home for justice 10 days up to 15th January 2016, when I went to meet someone to discuss business by the time I came back, I discovered she had left.

Qust. Does she leave with her properties?

Yes, she left with some of her properties, her clothes, my mobile tablet that I use for work, some money in my drawer, and my daughter.
Ajovi Yenukunme Joy 



Qust: Before she disappeared, did you have any disagreements or issues?

No, just little things, as the family settled it many months before she finally left. Her family, which includes her sister, father, and aunt, settled it for us like 8 months ago, which was just a minor thing. Whenever she takes her daughter to school, she will stay there until the daughter closes, and when I asked her what’s between her and the teacher of my daughter, she didn’t say.

Qust: Why does she have to leave to stay with the teacher of your daughter?

The issue was just what I told you; it all started when I began to question the relationship between her and my daughter's teacher. Whenever I travel and my family comes around, they won’t see her by the time I call her.

Qust: When she eventually disappeared, what were the steps you took?

I went to the family to inform them, because the first time she left she went to the family house. After informing the family, I wanted to go to the police station to make a report. I also made a publication in the newspaper that year. Some people have even told me she was with her mother in the Benin Republic. I also went there to search for my mother-in-law, but I couldn't find her or my wife. I spent so much time searching for my wife, but all the efforts were abortive.

I believe the woman charmed my wife or something she has portrayed herself to my wife as a seer who sees vision, she once told me that the woman saw some vision for her, and I told her she shouldn’t believe in that and face rather face her religion and believe in her God.

Quest: Why does it take this long before you see the reason to do this report?

We were all hoping that we were still going to see her; her family was also assuring me that we were going to find her. All we thought was probably she is with her mother since her parents were separated. We continued to search for her mother, and the family assured me that she would come one day. As I continued to wait, I told myself this is 10 years now since this woman left with my daughter. I’m kind of angry. I’m only doing this to find my daughter and let people know that my daughter is missing and why she went missing.

Qust: Do you by chance believe she could still be alive?

My prayer is for her to be alive so I can see my daughter; if I think she’s not alive, then I can’t find my daughter.

Qust: What exactly do you want now, What are you expecting?

All I want is for people to help me locate this woman so I can see my daughter again.



Speaking with Ganogbe Noah the father of Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigirl.

Qust: When was the last time you saw your daughter?

Going to 10 years ago, we could not find her. We went to the police station. We searched everywhere We thought we would be able to find her somewhere but unfortunately, until this moment.

Qust: What can you say must have happened if she was missing?

He and the husband have a misunderstanding, but we have settled it for them; even on that day we had a little celebration with them, and we believe that has been settled. Suddenly I heard again that she had taken the child and left the house. Don’t know where she went. The husband reported and explained all that happened; till now we can’t find her.

Qust: Did the husband tell you if there was an argument between them before she left?

No argument between them that I know about; after the one I told you was settled, I still went there and I found out that they were peaceful, which I was happy about.

Suddenly her husband informed me about her disappearance and since then we have been hoping to see her. Up to this moment, we can’t find her.

Qust: Do you try to reach out to her through the phone?

Yes we did on various occasions but it wasn’t going through, When I happened to like that, the husband tried to make sure we found her; some were even thinking I was the one that gave my daughter another husband, or probably I know about it, It almost led to an issue between me and the husband but my conscience is free since I know nothing about her disappearance.

There was a teacher of her daughter who we already brought to the police station when she initially had some issues with her husband, and the police have said my daughter and the teacher shouldn’t have anything to do together again, which was before she disappeared, and after she disappeared, the teacher remains the suspect, but we can’t go to her again since we already resolved at the police station that we won’t have another to do with her again.

What I can say is that anyone who knows this lady or the child should report to the nearest police station and contact us.


If found call Ajovi Noah on: 08034375303

By: Manoah Kikekon

 

Ajovi Yenukunme joy and  Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail


It is 10 years since Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail, disappeared with her daughter Ajovi Yenukunme Joy, 3 years on, as of 2015, when they left without traces.


Abigail and her husband Mr. Ajovi Noah, who was residing in Itoga, Badagry, Lagos State at the time she disappeared, remains missing up to this moment, as the relatives are calling on anyone who must have seen her anywhere to alert the police.

The husband, in an interview narrated the ordeal: my name is Ajovi Noah the name of my daughter is Ajovi Yenukunme Joy, Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigirl She went missing on 15 January 2016.

Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail 

Qust. You said totally was she missing at some point before then?

Yes, she left home on 15th January 2015 for the first time, staying with one teacher, my daughter. Before the family brought her back, she then went for another six months. The family found her again, and they called me She stayed about a week and then disappeared again, then came back in December 2015, then stayed with me at home for justice 10 days up to 15th January 2016, when I went to meet someone to discuss business by the time I came back, I discovered she had left.

Qust. Does she leave with her properties?

Yes, she left with some of her properties, her clothes, my mobile tablet that I use for work, some money in my drawer, and my daughter.
Ajovi Yenukunme Joy 



Qust: Before she disappeared, did you have any disagreements or issues?

No, just little things, as the family settled it many months before she finally left. Her family, which includes her sister, father, and aunt, settled it for us like 8 months ago, which was just a minor thing. Whenever she takes her daughter to school, she will stay there until the daughter closes, and when I asked her what’s between her and the teacher of my daughter, she didn’t say.

Qust: Why does she have to leave to stay with the teacher of your daughter?

The issue was just what I told you; it all started when I began to question the relationship between her and my daughter's teacher. Whenever I travel and my family comes around, they won’t see her by the time I call her.

Qust: When she eventually disappeared, what were the steps you took?

I went to the family to inform them, because the first time she left she went to the family house. After informing the family, I wanted to go to the police station to make a report. I also made a publication in the newspaper that year. Some people have even told me she was with her mother in the Benin Republic. I also went there to search for my mother-in-law, but I couldn't find her or my wife. I spent so much time searching for my wife, but all the efforts were abortive.

I believe the woman charmed my wife or something she has portrayed herself to my wife as a seer who sees vision, she once told me that the woman saw some vision for her, and I told her she shouldn’t believe in that and face rather face her religion and believe in her God.

Quest: Why does it take this long before you see the reason to do this report?

We were all hoping that we were still going to see her; her family was also assuring me that we were going to find her. All we thought was probably she is with her mother since her parents were separated. We continued to search for her mother, and the family assured me that she would come one day. As I continued to wait, I told myself this is 10 years now since this woman left with my daughter. I’m kind of angry. I’m only doing this to find my daughter and let people know that my daughter is missing and why she went missing.

Qust: Do you by chance believe she could still be alive?

My prayer is for her to be alive so I can see my daughter; if I think she’s not alive, then I can’t find my daughter.

Qust: What exactly do you want now, What are you expecting?

All I want is for people to help me locate this woman so I can see my daughter again.



Speaking with Ganogbe Noah the father of Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigirl.

Qust: When was the last time you saw your daughter?

Going to 10 years ago, we could not find her. We went to the police station. We searched everywhere We thought we would be able to find her somewhere but unfortunately, until this moment.

Qust: What can you say must have happened if she was missing?

He and the husband have a misunderstanding, but we have settled it for them; even on that day we had a little celebration with them, and we believe that has been settled. Suddenly I heard again that she had taken the child and left the house. Don’t know where she went. The husband reported and explained all that happened; till now we can’t find her.

Qust: Did the husband tell you if there was an argument between them before she left?

No argument between them that I know about; after the one I told you was settled, I still went there and I found out that they were peaceful, which I was happy about.

Suddenly her husband informed me about her disappearance and since then we have been hoping to see her. Up to this moment, we can’t find her.

Qust: Do you try to reach out to her through the phone?

Yes we did on various occasions but it wasn’t going through, When I happened to like that, the husband tried to make sure we found her; some were even thinking I was the one that gave my daughter another husband, or probably I know about it, It almost led to an issue between me and the husband but my conscience is free since I know nothing about her disappearance.

There was a teacher of her daughter who we already brought to the police station when she initially had some issues with her husband, and the police have said my daughter and the teacher shouldn’t have anything to do together again, which was before she disappeared, and after she disappeared, the teacher remains the suspect, but we can’t go to her again since we already resolved at the police station that we won’t have another to do with her again.

What I can say is that anyone who knows this lady or the child should report to the nearest police station and contact us.


If found call Ajovi Noah on: 08034375303

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