Beyond Life Struggle: How Challenges Becomes Your Strength

 By: Joy Samuel 

Joy Samuel 

Life is an intricate journey of peaks and valleys. Regardless of our background or status, challenges are a universal part of the human experience. They arrive in countless forms, serving as a powerful reminder that life is not always a bed of roses, but a complex blend of victories and obstacles.

What Are Life Struggles?

Life struggles are the challenges, obstacles, and difficulties we encounter while pursuing our goals or simply striving to survive. These hurdles can range from minor daily setbacks to profound difficulties beyond our control. Ultimately, they test our patience, strength, and character, pushing us to evolve.

The 5 Common Struggles We Face Daily

The battles we fight are multifaceted, often falling into these key categories:

* Financial Struggles: The relentless stress of unemployment, poverty, debt, and the daily effort to make ends meet.

* Emotional Struggles: The deep pain of heartbreak, loneliness, chronic stress, and betrayal from trusted loved ones.

* Physical Struggles: Ongoing health challenges, disabilities, and the sheer exhaustion that comes from daily labor.

* Social Struggles: The weight of discrimination, family conflicts, negative peer pressure, and the immense pressure to conform to society's expectations.

* Mental Struggles: The internal battles against anxiety, depression, and pervasive self-doubt.

Each type of struggle affects us uniquely, yet they all fundamentally shape our perspective on life.

What Causes Life's Challenges?

The roots of our struggles are diverse. Some stem from our own actions, such as poor decision-making, inadequate planning, or a lack of self-discipline. However, many are imposed upon us by circumstances outside our control a sudden illness, a natural disaster, or a widespread economic downturn. The universal truth is that no one is exempt; struggle is a shared human condition.

The Transformative Impact of Struggle

Struggles are not a punishment. While they can be painful, breaking us down with discouragement and frustration, they also possess the power to build us back up stronger. They are profound teachers of resilience, wisdom, and patience. An individual who has never struggled may not fully appreciate success, but those who have walked through the fire understand the true value of victory.

How to Navigate Your Daily Struggles Effectively

Your response to challenges matters more than the struggles themselves. Here’s how to build resilience:

* Cultivate a Positive Mindset: Actively refuse to surrender to negativity. Your perspective is your most powerful tool.

* Seek Support: You don’t have to face it alone. Lean on trusted friends, family, or a professional mentor for guidance and strength.

* Nurture Faith and Hope: Hold onto your spiritual beliefs. Keeping hope alive and seeking divine direction can provide immense comfort and clarity.

* Re-strategize and Act: Reassess your approach. Set clear, achievable goals, manage your time effectively, and commit to improving existing skills or learning new ones.

The Hidden Teacher in Every Challenge

Struggles are mentors in disguise. They teach us that failure is not a final destination but a critical part of the journey to success. In fact, every great leader, inventor, and achiever has endured a phase of immense struggle before reaching their goals.

Hope is the light that pierces the darkest tunnel, and perseverance is the engine that drives us forward. Armed with these two forces, no struggle is too heavy to overcome.

The struggles of life are not meant to destroy us; they are designed to build us into better, stronger versions of ourselves. When facing these challenges, remember that storms are always temporary. The size of the problem is less important than the strength of your response. By keeping faith, nurturing hope, and remaining resilient, your greatest pains will one day become your most powerful testimonies.

The Art of Letting Go: A Guide to Freedom and Growth

By: Joy Samuel

Joy Samuel 

Letting go is one of life's difficult lessons, but it is also one of the most liberating. We often cling tightly to people, past mistakes, and old memories, fearing that releasing them will leave an emptiness within. In truth, the act of letting go is not about loss; it's about making space for peace, growth, and new beginnings.

Why Is It So Important to Let Go?

Holding onto pain and regret creates a filter that distorts our view of the world and ourselves. It breeds self-doubt and holds us back from becoming who we are meant to be. When we choose to let go, we remove that filter. We begin to see opportunities and insights that were previously invisible. This clarity pushes us to accomplish tasks and reach milestones we never thought possible, freeing us to move forward unburdened.

The Challenges: How Holding On Affects Us

The process of letting go has two potential sides: one of liberation and one of struggle. The difficult side is real and can profoundly affect us. When people are hurt, they may make grievous mistakes or take risks that aren't worth it. They can struggle to control their emotions, experience drained mental health, and find themselves in unhealthy situations simply because they are in pain.

This can lead to dwelling in misery, prolonged isolation, and shutting people out. It's crucial to recognize that while these struggles can be a painful part of the growth journey, you do not have to endure them alone. Seeking help from friends, family, or a professional is a sign of strength, not weakness, especially when the going gets tough.

The Advantages: How Letting Go Helps You Heal

On the other side of the struggle is profound healing. Letting go amends old wounds, restores your spirit, and replenishes your energy. It waters the seeds of your personal growth, allowing a better version of yourself to emerge. This process helps you retrace your steps, understand what you truly need to heal, and build resilience. While rough situations are inevitable, your reaction to them defines your path.

Does Letting Go Reveal New Possibilities?

Absolutely. Letting go allows you to see beyond immediate impossibilities. It creates mental space for hope and provides the room you need to grow. As you release the past, you often discover capabilities and strengths you never knew you had. Talents and dreams that never crossed your mind suddenly become clear, opening doors to a future full of potential.

When Should You Make Room for Letting Go?

The right time to let go is now. Making a conscious room for this practice improves your ability to think clearly, reignites your creativity, and fosters an atmosphere for positive opportunities to re-enter your life. It restores your self-confidence and boosts your morale, setting the stage for good tidings.

Encouragement to Take the Step

Do not let your limitations define you. Do not hide behind your flaws. Everyone experiences mistakes, betrayal, and a broken heart. These events are chapters in your story, but they are not the whole book. Remember, sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step of your life. Take that step today. Choose to let go, and unlock the door to your freedom.

Meet Ibok-Ete Ibas: The Veteran Naval Officer Tasked with Restoring Peace in Rivers State

 By: Manoah Kikekon 

Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas (Rtd)

Vice Admiral Ibok-Ete Ekwe Ibas (Rtd), a former Chief of Naval Staff, has been appointed as the administrator of Rivers State following President Bola Tinubu’s declaration of a state of emergency in the region.  

In a national address on Tuesday, President Tinubu announced the suspension of Governor Sim Fubara, Deputy Governor Ngozi Odu, and all members of the state House of Assembly for six months. This decision comes amid ongoing political crises in the state, with Ibas stepping in to restore stability.  

A Distinguished Career in Service

Born on September 27, 1960, in Nko, Cross River State, Ibas is a highly decorated naval officer with over four decades of service to Nigeria. He served as the 22nd Chief of Naval Staff (CNS) from July 13, 2015, to January 29, 2021, and later as Nigeria’s ambassador to Ghana.  

Educational Background

Ibas began his education at Nko Primary School and completed it at Big Qua Primary School in 1971. He attended Hope Waddell Training Institute from 1972 to 1976 and later the School of Basic Studies in Ogoja between 1977 and 1979. In 1979, he joined the Nigerian Defence Academy as part of the 26th Regular Course, commissioning as a Sub-Lieutenant on January 1, 1983.  

His professional military training includes courses at INS Venduruthy in India, the 301 Primary Flying Training School in Kaduna, the Armed Forces Command and Staff College in Jaji, the Marine Corps University in Quantico, Virginia, and the National Defence College in Islamabad, Pakistan. He also holds a master’s degree in Defence and Strategic Studies from Quaid-i-Azam University in Islamabad.  

A Stellar Naval Career

Throughout his career, Ibas held numerous key positions in the Nigerian Navy. Early on, he served on vessels such as NNS Ruwan Yaro, NNS Obuma, and NNS Aradu. He later became the executive officer of NNS Siri, NNS Ekun, and NNS Ambe between 1993 and 1996.  

His leadership roles included commanding officer of the Nigerian Navy Underwater Warfare School, commanding officer of the Forward Operating Base Ibaka, Naval provost marshal, principal staff officer to the CNS, command operations officer at Western Naval Command, commander of the Naval Air Base in Ojo, chief staff officer at Naval Training Command, chief of administration at Naval Headquarters, Navy secretary, flag officer commanding Western Naval Command, chief of logistics, and group managing director/CEO of Nigerian Navy Holdings Limited.  

Appointed Chief of Naval Staff by former President Muhammadu Buhari on July 13, 2015, Ibas concluded his military career in 2021 and was subsequently appointed as Nigeria’s ambassador to Ghana.  

Awards and Recognitions

Ibas has been honored with numerous awards for his service, including the Silver Jubilee Medal, ECOMOG Medal, Forces Service Star, Meritorious Service Star, Distinguished Service Star, and the General Service Star. In October 2022, former President Buhari conferred on him the prestigious Commander of the Order of the Federal Republic (CFR).  

Professional Affiliations and Personal Life

Ibas is a member of professional organizations such as the Nigerian Institute of International Affairs and the Nigerian Institute of Management. He is married to Theresa Ibas, and they have three children. His personal interests include reading, watching documentaries, and playing golf.  

A New Role in Rivers State

With his vast experience and proven leadership, Ibas is expected to bring stability and order to Rivers State during his six-month tenure as administrator. His appointment underscores the federal government’s commitment to resolving the state’s political challenges and restoring peace. 

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Federal Judge Halts Trump’s Transgender Military Ban, Citing Constitutional Violations

 By: Manaoh Kikekon 

US Military personnel used to illustrate the story

In a landmark decision on Tuesday, a federal judge delivered a significant blow to U.S. President Donald Trump’s controversial policy banning transgender individuals from serving in the military. 

The ruling, which cited violations of the Fifth Amendment, marks a pivotal moment in the ongoing battle over LGBTQ+ rights in the armed forces.

Shortly after taking office, President Trump signed an executive order authorizing the expulsion of thousands of transgender service members. The policy was framed as part of his broader effort to combat what he termed “radical gender ideology” at the federal level. However, the move sparked immediate backlash, with several service members filing lawsuits. They argued that the ban constituted illegal discrimination and violated their constitutional right to equal protection under the law.

On Tuesday, U.S. District Judge Ana Reyes issued a scathing rebuke of the Trump administration’s policy, calling it “derogatory” and unconstitutional. In her ruling, Judge Reyes granted an injunction, allowing transgender troops to continue serving in the military. 

“The ban, at its core, employs derogatory language to target a vulnerable group, violating the Fifth Amendment,” Judge Reyes stated in her written decision. She emphasized that the Trump administration failed to provide any legal or factual justification for the policy, adding, “The law does not require the court to rubber-stamp illogical judgments based on conjecture.”

The government had argued that courts should defer to military judgment on matters pertaining to the armed forces. However, Judge Reyes firmly rejected this stance, asserting that such deference does not extend to policies that are discriminatory and lack a rational basis.

This ruling represents a critical victory for transgender service members and advocates of LGBTQ+ rights. It also underscores the judiciary’s role in upholding constitutional protections against discriminatory practices. As the legal battle continues, the injunction ensures that transgender troops can serve openly and without fear of dismissal at least for now.

The decision has reignited debates over equality, military readiness, and the role of the executive branch in shaping policy. For the approximately 4,200 transgender service members affected by the ban, the ruling offers a temporary reprieve and a glimmer of hope in their fight for equal treatment.

As the case progresses, all eyes will remain on the courts to see whether this injunction will stand and what it means for the future of transgender rights in the U.S. military. For now, Judge Reyes’ ruling serves as a powerful reminder that no group should be targeted or excluded based on who they are. 

MBGB 2025: Why Ladies Should Raise the Bar - Eritomi Joel

By: Manoah kikekon 

Eritomi Joel 

Eritomi Joel, the 2nd runner-up and the best-behaved model at the Most Beautiful Girl in Badagry 2025 (MBGB), has called on ladies to raise their bar of good behaviour as she shares how she emerged as the best-behaved model.

In an interview with News Peddlers correspondent, she said despite the fact that good behaviour is good, it's not easy to practice it takes dedication and determination.

In Eritomi's words, "Have you ever noticed how good behaviour can completely transform your life and relationships? It's like a superpower that earns you respect, builds confidence, and attracts positivity.

But, let's get real. Behaving well isn't always easy. There are days when you feel like throwing tantrums, days when you want to give up, and days when you just want to eat an entire pizza by yourself (no judgement, though!).

Despite the challenges, good behavior is worth it. In this piece, we'll explore the importance of good behavior, its benefits, and some practical tips to help you raise the bar.

Benefits of Good Behaviour: Good behaviour is like a magnet that attracts all things good. Here are just a few benefits: When you behave well, you earn respect from others. It's like having a superpower that makes people take you seriously. Good behavior boosts your confidence. You feel more self-assured, empowered, and prepared to take on the world.

Behaving well fosters positive relationships. You attract people who appreciate your kindness, empathy, and compassion.

I'd like to share a personal experience that illustrates the power of good behavior. I was once a contestant in the "Most Beautiful Girl in Badagry" pageantry. Throughout the competition, I made a conscious effort to exhibit good behaviour towards my colleagues, despite the challenges I faced.

Some of my colleagues and even a few organisers would try to frustrate me and get under my skin. But I refused to let their negativity bring me down. Instead, I focused on being my best self and making myself proud.

I believe that life shows us how we want to be treated, and it's up to us to treat others with kindness and respect. As a quiet person, I've learnt that tone and manner of speaking really matter. If someone speaks to me in a disrespectful tone, I simply remain calm, quiet, and composed, looking at them as if they're not speaking to me.

My good behaviour didn't go unnoticed. I was awarded the "Best Behaved Model" of the pageantry, which was an incredible feeling.

Tips for Good Behaviour:

Now that we've covered the benefits, here are some practical tips to help you behave well:

Practice Self-Awareness: Understand your thoughts, feelings, and actions. Take time to reflect on your values, strengths, and weaknesses.

Establish healthy boundaries to maintain positive relationships and prioritise your needs. Treat others with kindness, empathy, and compassion. Practice active listening, ask open-ended questions, and show genuine interest in others.

Good behaviour is a choice, ladies. It's a choice to raise the bar, to earn respect, and to attract positivity. Remember, behaving well isn't about being perfect; it's about being authentic, empathetic, and compassionate. So, go ahead and make the choice to behave well. Your relationships, confidence, and overall well-being will thank you

My day Dream By: Joel Eritomi

By:  Joel Eritomi 

Joel Eritomi 

Lost in thought, my mind begins to wander to a place of vibrant colors and endless possibilities. I find myself daydreaming of a world where I am the architect of my own destiny, crafting a life that is authentic, meaningful, and fulfilling.

In this world, I imagine myself waking up each morning with a sense of purpose and direction. I see myself cultivating healthier habits, such as meditating, journaling, and exercising, to nourish my mind, body, and soul. I envision myself surrounded by loving relationships, built on mutual respect, trust, and open communication.

As I daydream, I see myself pursuing my passions with reckless abandon, unencumbered by fear, doubt, or uncertainty. I imagine myself learning new skills, exploring new interests, and pushing beyond my comfort zone to discover new strengths and talents. I envision myself making a positive impact on the world, using my gifts and abilities to uplift and inspire others.

In this world, I am free to be myself, without apology or pretension. I am free to make mistakes, to learn from them, and to grow into a wiser, more compassionate version of myself. I am free to chase my dreams, to pursue my heart's desires, and to create a life that is truly my own.

As I continue to daydream, I feel a sense of excitement and anticipation building within me. I feel a sense of hope and possibility, knowing that this world is not just a fantasy but a reality that I can create for myself. I am inspired to take action, to make conscious choices, and to cultivate the habits and mindset necessary to bring this vision to life.

EXCLUSIVE: Badagry resident cries out as wife and daughter remain missing after 10 years

By: Manoah Kikekon

 

Ajovi Yenukunme joy and  Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail

It is 10 years since Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail, disappeared with her daughter Ajovi Yenukunme Joy, 3 years on, as of 2015, when they left without traces.

Abigail and her husband Mr. Ajovi Noah, who was residing in Itoga, Badagry, Lagos State at the time she disappeared, remains missing up to this moment, as the relatives are calling on anyone who must have seen her anywhere to alert the police.

The husband, in an interview narrated the ordeal: my name is Ajovi Noah the name of my daughter is Ajovi Yenukunme Joy, Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigirl She went missing on 15 January 2016.

Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigail 

Qust. You said totally was she missing at some point before then?

Yes, she left home on 15th January 2015 for the first time, staying with one teacher, my daughter. Before the family brought her back, she then went for another six months. The family found her again, and they called me She stayed about a week and then disappeared again, then came back in December 2015, then stayed with me at home for justice 10 days up to 15th January 2016, when I went to meet someone to discuss business by the time I came back, I discovered she had left.

Qust. Does she leave with her properties?

Yes, she left with some of her properties, her clothes, my mobile tablet that I use for work, some money in my drawer, and my daughter.

Ajovi Yenukunme Joy 

Qust: Before she disappeared, did you have any disagreements or issues?

No, just little things, as the family settled it many months before she finally left. Her family, which includes her sister, father, and aunt, settled it for us like 8 months ago, which was just a minor thing. Whenever she takes her daughter to school, she will stay there until the daughter closes, and when I asked her what’s between her and the teacher of my daughter, she didn’t say.

Qust: Why does she have to leave to stay with the teacher of your daughter?

The issue was just what I told you; it all started when I began to question the relationship between her and my daughter's teacher. Whenever I travel and my family comes around, they won’t see her by the time I call her.

Qust: When she eventually disappeared, what were the steps you took?

I went to the family to inform them, because the first time she left she went to the family house. After informing the family, I wanted to go to the police station to make a report. I also made a publication in the newspaper that year. Some people have even told me she was with her mother in the Benin Republic. I also went there to search for my mother-in-law, but I couldn't find her or my wife. I spent so much time searching for my wife, but all the efforts were abortive.

I believe the woman charmed my wife or something she has portrayed herself to my wife as a seer who sees vision, she once told me that the woman saw some vision for her, and I told her she shouldn’t believe in that and face rather face her religion and believe in her God.

Quest: Why does it take this long before you see the reason to do this report?

We were all hoping that we were still going to see her; her family was also assuring me that we were going to find her. All we thought was probably she is with her mother since her parents were separated. We continued to search for her mother, and the family assured me that she would come one day. As I continued to wait, I told myself this is 10 years now since this woman left with my daughter. I’m kind of angry. I’m only doing this to find my daughter and let people know that my daughter is missing and why she went missing.

Qust: Do you by chance believe she could still be alive?

My prayer is for her to be alive so I can see my daughter; if I think she’s not alive, then I can’t find my daughter.

Qust: What exactly do you want now, What are you expecting?

All I want is for people to help me locate this woman so I can see my daughter again.

Speaking with Ganogbe Noah the father of Ganogbe Yeyinu Abigirl.

Qust: When was the last time you saw your daughter?

Going to 10 years ago, we could not find her. We went to the police station. We searched everywhere We thought we would be able to find her somewhere but unfortunately, until this moment.

Qust: What can you say must have happened if she was missing?

He and the husband have a misunderstanding, but we have settled it for them; even on that day we had a little celebration with them, and we believe that has been settled. Suddenly I heard again that she had taken the child and left the house. Don’t know where she went. The husband reported and explained all that happened; till now we can’t find her.

Qust: Did the husband tell you if there was an argument between them before she left?

No argument between them that I know about; after the one I told you was settled, I still went there and I found out that they were peaceful, which I was happy about.

Suddenly her husband informed me about her disappearance and since then we have been hoping to see her. Up to this moment, we can’t find her.

Qust: Do you try to reach out to her through the phone?

Yes we did on various occasions but it wasn’t going through, When I happened to like that, the husband tried to make sure we found her; some were even thinking I was the one that gave my daughter another husband, or probably I know about it, It almost led to an issue between me and the husband but my conscience is free since I know nothing about her disappearance.

There was a teacher of her daughter who we already brought to the police station when she initially had some issues with her husband, and the police have said my daughter and the teacher shouldn’t have anything to do together again, which was before she disappeared, and after she disappeared, the teacher remains the suspect, but we can’t go to her again since we already resolved at the police station that we won’t have another to do with her again.

What I can say is that anyone who knows this lady or the child should report to the nearest police station and contact us.

If found call Ajovi Noah on: 08034375303